Re: Me and my girlfriend keep arguing. I need help.?
This is very similar to what happened between me and my current LTR in the beginning. I'll tell you exactly how I overcame this and how she is madly in love with me now.
First thing for you to accept is that....it's been two weeks! Not a big deal unless you treat it like one.
Secondly, arguments are normal. However, you have to learn to choose your battles. If she argues about you not saying "Hey" then all you tell her is "Look, I don't know what's going on with you, but I don't like it. I'll talk to you later." THAT'S IT!
Don't bail. Everyone bails. Either people are too proud to give up, or too proud to stay and work things out. Which one are you? I'll tell you that you won't get far if you aren't willing to work things out. Of course she has to be willing also, so always have a line that she shouldn't cross. Only argue about things that YOU feel are important. Everything else just walk away from. Whatever you put your attention on gives it power.
There's a lot more about this, but that one rule about walking away should handle most of it. Pick your battles.
Also its not normal to argue about what she picks at. There's a good chance she hasn't been in a long term relationship before. At least not a healthy one. So be prepared to walk away after exhausting all options.
Also don't tell her what do to. Only tell her what you expect. Telling her what to do is controlling. Telling her you don't like something she says or does is not controlling. You're simply saying what you don't like and what you expect. Remember this whenever you disagree.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."