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Thread: The Getting bored test

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    Default The Getting bored test

    Everything's been going well so far, and I've known with the holidays I've been too busy to set up a first date. I've made that clear, in a playful way, and all has gone well to this point.

    In retrospect, my mistake with her may have been texting too much. While I'm never the one to initiate and there is a significant gap before I respond most times, I do text her frequently.

    I just got this, in the middle of a random unrelated text conversation:

    Her: "I'm gonna take a wild guess here, and say I won't see you this year"
    Me: "I know it would make your year... We'll see. "
    Her: "Nope. I don't chase. I'm getting bored"

    Never been any signs of boredom up to this point, quite the opposite - I believe by 'bored' she really means 'frustrated and unsure if we'll ever meet'.

    I'm thinking of simply going with "I'll let you know." Takes it up a level in seriousness, doesn't really acknowledge any of what she said, and it lays out what's going to happen. Or I could just take the foundation out from under it by ignoring her until she texts again, probably tomorrow...

    I am hoping to have time to see her this weekend, but not certain I will.

    Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: "Getting bored" shit test

    I think she refers to bored as in: I always text you first, you take a long time to answer, and NOW you're implying you wont make a single effort to see me this new year.

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    Default Re: "Getting bored" shit test

    yeah she obviously wants to meet you again if she said that in the middle of the random convo :P set a date/time--> kclose her, otherwise sets blown

    EDIT::: oh what i misread that apologies, yeah don't talk to them for too long before the date otherwise they WILL get bored, but if you keep the convo interesting she'll have no choice but to keep wanting to see you ive been down that path without problems

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    Default Re: "Getting bored" shit test

    She may be bored because you aren't escalating. Seems like you are more worried about how many cool points you have rather than putting her on an emotional roller coaster. Players and jocks pay it cool ALL THE TIME. Pickup Artists make her FEEL. Happiness, sadness, loss, gain, validation, devalidation(I don't think that's a word lol). She only cries because you make her smile. Don't be afraid to let go and show some emotion. One of the attraction switches is willingness to emote.
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    Default Re: "Getting bored" shit test

    I would respond to the bored comment with something like, "yeah im bored too... all this running around for holidays and stuff. But that'll make it MORE fun when we get a chance to hang."

    Kind of acknowledges her feelings while playing it cool. BUT this will not hold her for long. You must advance (set up a date) within a week or so (and be prepared because she will flake if she is very upset but i doubt it).
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