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    Default Came On Too Strong; How to Recover?

    Hey guys,

    So there is this girl who I met a few months ago, but who I never really got to know. She is EXTREMELY shy, and I don't think that she plays games. Anyway, here's how it went (she goes to college with me in the states, but is back in Korea visiting home for the holidays):

    Me: Did Santa visit Korea?
    Her(few hours later): haha yeah, but not me lol
    Me(few hours later) : Uh oh, does that mean that you've been a naughty girl? ;P

    This was 2 days ago, and I haven't heard anything back. Looking back, I am quite sure I was too forward and freaked her out, since I don't know her that well. If I could do it again, I would have instead done this:

    Me: Did Santa visit Korea?
    Her: Yeah haha but not me lol
    Me: Uh oh......
    Her: What's wrong?
    Me: Sounds like you were on the naughty list...and right when I thought I could trust you =P

    This would have compelled her to respond, and would not have been so forward. Anyway, how should I resume conversation? I doubt she will reinitiate, since she doesn't know me that well. However, I rarely see her around campus, so it would be hard to just talk to her face to face. What is the best way to move on from this mistake?

    Thank you so much for your advice!

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    Default Re: Came On Too Strong; How to Recover?

    Came On Too Strong; How to Recover?
    lol i never thought i'd be critiquing a title........anyway you didn't :P
    that's seriously basic generalised convo

    i like the idea of the reworked texts, i would've told her to suffer with all the coal she got or something to do with the coal and how she's gonna love it

    orgnaise a meetup on campus, say lunch during a time that both of u are free, i don't know your motives with this girl but regardless there's a search button to find the answers to what you're wanting

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    Default Re: Came On Too Strong; How to Recover?

    Thanks a lot, I really appreciate it. Do you have any advice/links for how to set up a meetup with a girl who's already flaky on text?

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    Default Re: Came On Too Strong; How to Recover?

    not links, you can search for that no doubt theres probably atleast 50 of the same question / setting up dates more so just be direct eg my place, 7pm or dinner xyz, 730 (y)


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