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    AkaTheEdge is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Losing/lost her interest

    So I recently started online game again after years away. Im a good looking guy so I started talking to loads of girls on meet me and then kik. I got on really well with one girl in particular, same sense of humour etc.
    As I was talking to loads of girls I didnt really give her much attention and she was really into me. We talked more and more and became quite tight, talking everyday on kik and she would start the conversations . I found myself liking her and I believe I made loads of mistakes from here on -
    1. She likes funny guys, so I tried to be funny all the time (became try hard).
    2. We spoke so much near the start I used all my good, funny, interesting material or stories.
    3. She sent me pics in her underwear looked amazing, so I think I may have looked desperate because ive asked for more on about four occassions without success
    4. So then I thought I better pull this back and Id reply short to the point answers and I would take ages to reply, sometimes id leave it acouple days. So then she started taking ages to reply untill the point where we might only send one message each a day. Now we barely talk...and we were talking about meeting in the summer as she lives far away.
    5.Now ive tried to go back to normal and shes still distant and barely replying.

    Positives are - nearer the start I know she really liked me and told me.... more then I liked her. when we weren't speaking much she randomly gave me her number and said she doesnt give it to anybody online (I never called or texted her as she lives in another country $$$). If I don't speak to her for afew days she will make first contact again (but then she will take ages to reply once I reply)

    So I need advice on what to do now to re -spark her interest.

    My plan was to leave her for a week or two and then just contact her randomly with fresh material, but shes a HB9 so im worried in that time another guy will have her attention.


    P.S its not one-it-is because I still speak and fuck other girls and I have no desire to be her boyfriend, I just want to meet her because shes cool and fuck her of course.

    Thanks for any advice

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    Default Re: Losing/lost her interest

    Just seems like you lost momentum. Happens to the best of us and it's fairly difficult to regain. Golden rule to prevent it is to make sure you escalate by using push/pull. There's plenty of material for you to look up about this.

    As for recovery...there are a couple of options. New material (like you said) to engage her emotionally so she can feel again, that spark you had before.

    You could also reveal a new layer of yourself. Open up a little to peak her interest, but maintain mystery so she wants to keep learning more about you. Become her rubiks cube she wants to solve, but never will. Only getting closer to a solution that will stay just out of her reach.

    You could also try qualification. It's a great way to solidify any attraction you've built up with her by saying what you like about her other than her looks. This will make her feel special other than just another notch in your belt. Again, maintain mystery when you can, but don't lose momentum by letting it go stale. There is also plenty of material on qualification you could read up on. Hope this helps and good luck.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    AkaTheEdge is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Losing/lost her interest

    Thanks for the reply. I think you might be right.

    Ive always used my looks to get girls, so I admit myself my game isnt great, im not a natural. I know the rules like dhv, Push Pull (which I believe I did with her), qualification etc

    but I find it difficult to come up with stuff on the spot.

    Is there a list of qualification questions anywhere?

    ill google and see


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