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Thread: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

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    Default Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    Met this super hot blondie on the street. Arranged an Instant Date, had a good fun. Unfortunately she had to leave so took her number. At this point we couldnt speak for a week because she lost her phone and the insurance company would provide a new one after christmas. A week after

    Me: Hey girl. Lets see whether you are cool enough to remember me. hkmt
    Me: (2 days after): Ohh Alice not remembering breaks this sexy guys heart...

    No response... Seriously that is the most frustrating thing I am facing in my game recently. Maybe the location, maybe the people in this area or maybe me loosing my day game skills after banging 15 chicks from day game in C.London Last year I moved out from C.London since then my day game is farked) whatever it is even after super strong interactions, girls just disappear. Any advice here?

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    Default Re: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    if they don't reply the first time upon initial text why would they reply to the second one? the more alpha thing to do would be to cut your losses and move on without showing them that you're needy

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    Default Re: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    It sounds to me like your daygame might be "fucked" simply because you had that experience last year. Maybe you're too outcome oriented now, or maybe you're seeking too much validation because of that experience. Idk. Just what it sounds like to me.
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    Default Re: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    if they don't reply the first time upon initial text why would they reply to the second one? the more alpha thing to do would be to cut your losses and move on without showing them that you're needy
    Well, IMO on the second text you should be reaction seeking, just to get a response. For instance, a good second response in this instance would be, "Oh, I guess you're a dog. I hate shallow girls anyway." Yea, that could had sparked some drama, and would had been hard to recover from, but it would had pushed the interaction further. (And would had been fun too!)

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    Default Re: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    Well, IMO on the second text you should be reaction seeking, just to get a response. For instance, a good second response in this instance would be, "Oh, I guess you're a dog. I hate shallow girls anyway." Yea, that could had sparked some drama, and would had been hard to recover from, but it would had pushed the interaction further. (And would had been fun too!)

    Note: In case some newbie is reading this; don't read this post newbie! Focus on being alpha and listen to hyp!
    Even if you're experienced, don't use this. There's a difference between wanting a reaction and being a d1ck.

    I'd say cut your losses though. It could even be that when she got a new phone, she got a new number. It sucks but it happens. Just don't let this get you down. Sometimes things happen and it's not meant to be. If she was truly an HB10 though you should be fine finding another
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    Default Re: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    I'm not sure about the purpose of saying that you have banged 15 chicks. I hope it's not a matter of validation . Just joking.

    If she didn't answer the first text, that's probably because the interaction didn't go well enough. However we all know that girls can do very strange things...
    And don't like too much your first text. In the first message, if possible, I try to bring up something from you last physical interaction.

    Anyway, you don't have anything to loose so in my opinion you can send a second message as you did, but I would try to get her attention with curiosity, by saying the typical: " I just saw something funny that reminded me of you...".
    Girls are so curious you could not even belief it.

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    Default Re: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    Quote Originally Posted by KnightTurner View Post
    Even if you're experienced, don't use this. There's a difference between wanting a reaction and being a d1ck.
    I have a question. Why not?

    I understand why you shouldn't be a dick for no reason at all, however, females do the same types of things to seek reactions from us. I understand the standpoint of not wanting to be a dick as well, but imo it's personal preference.

    If she did respond to that text an easy way to diffuse it would just simply state, "I was just teasing," followed by whatever it was you really wanted to say.

    I'm not looking to argue about it though, and if you just want me to not share "dick moves" I won't, just state that. Just wondering the justification of your standpoint. =)
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    Default Re: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    I have a question. Why not?

    I understand why you shouldn't be a d1ck for no reason at all, however, females do the same types of things to seek reactions from us. I understand the standpoint of not wanting to be a d1ck as well, but imo it's personal preference.

    If she did respond to that text an easy way to diffuse it would just simply state, "I was just teasing," followed by whatever it was you really wanted to say.

    I'm not looking to argue about it though, and if you just want me to not share "d1ck moves" I won't, just state that. Just wondering the justification of your standpoint. =)
    It's just too much of a d1ck thing to say outright. After getting to know her and showing her this is your humor, go for it. But when you're wanting a girl to respond because she hasn't been, you have to tread lightly and not push things too far like that.
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    Default Re: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    "Oh, I guess you're a dog. I hate shallow girls anyway."

    THis is a punch in her face, no way she is answering that. I belief that as a PUA you need to be a little bit different, tease a little bit, blablabla. But this is way far over the line. Same thing as neg's, I have seen some ones that are just crazy...

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    Default Re: Perfect 10 blondie, got an instant date, disappeared..

    Quote Originally Posted by KnightTurner View Post
    It's just too much of a d1ck thing to say outright. After getting to know her and showing her this is your humor, go for it. But when you're wanting a girl to respond because she hasn't been, you have to tread lightly and not push things too far like that.
    I see what you're saying but why tread lightly? Also, what's too far? Where do we draw the line?
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