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    californication is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Polish girl from the club

    Met her in the club, got physical, danced quite intimate with her for an hour, then she had to leave early to finish a school project whatever. Got her number...

    Me: (next day) So did you manage to be a good student and finish the project?
    Her: (the next day) I am always trying to be a good student however, still haven't finished my bloody project. Thanks for asking
    Me: (4 hours later) I tried to be a good party boy on saturday and managed to party non stop for 14 hours
    Me: (2 days later) Omg guess what..
    Her: (1 min later) what..?

    Called her and told her a funny story that I created. We had a 10-15 min convo, lots of laugh and also we spoke about the weekend plans. I tried to organise a date on (last) Saturday but she said "Call me on saturday". I know this was a shit answer.. On satuday;

    Me: Get ready for the great fun and meet me at 8pm Koko (apparently this is her nickname...)
    Me: (5 hours later) Too late. I made another plan. Lost your chance...

    And then today I called her no response. Seriously I do accept that my texting is not the greatest but for gods sake do I make that much major mistakes, or do I sound that much boring not to get even a single day2 among all these chicks I met with?

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    Default Re: Polish girl from the club

    I don't know what the experts have to say about your texts...

    I would guess your only mistake was your last message. You invited her... if she flake, you don't go after her, you don't say that she missed anything or lost a chance, that is implied... you must act in a way that the fact of her not answering your invitation or flaking doesn't affect you. You should have waited for her to contact you.

    You can also see her lack of interest by not continuing the convo when you said that you "managed to party non stop for 14 hours".

    Maybe you are going after some specific kind of girls that are not looking for commitment, not even for a second date.

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    Default Re: Polish girl from the club

    your texting is prettttttty boring, i would go ahead that phone call undid the damage but not entirely, and then you go and invite her out, sure that's respectable game and she tells you to call her (fine), you take the easy option and drop her a text, the man-er thing to do would've been to actually call, tell her you're going to have an awesome time and don't actually give a fqck if she comes or not cause you'll be going with your mates


    You can also see her lack of interest by not continuing the convo when you said that you "managed to party non stop for 14 hours".

    pretty sure you could've reworked that into how you had an awesome time and she missed out


    Maybe you are going after some specific kind of girls that are not looking for commitment, not even for a second date.

    Lol if you want quality go to places where it is, clubs and pubs aren't ideal, daygame is for that and LTRs (i'm not saying it's impossible, just saying it's harder)

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    THEelegance is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Polish girl from the club

    First of all, after 1h getting physical, you should make a move. Kiss that girl. After kissing, her investment on you is higher, so there is more chance of 2day.
    In my opion, if you really need to send 2 texts in a row, make sure you send the second one, seconds or minuts after the first one, because then it sounds like you forgot something.
    If you send the second text 2h later, she will think that you thought that you made a mistake, and that you are trying to correct it. And that comes over as needy.

    I don't like this:
    "I tried to be a good party boy on saturday and managed to party non stop for 14 hours"
    Because in this case, that girls seems quite dedicated to her studies, and she probably wants to find a man that is dedicated as well, not some crazy party boy. I might be wrong with this though...


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