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Thread: Strange Problem...

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    Default Strange Problem...

    So it's official, I am going to college next year! The college that I got accepted into created a Facebook group where accepted students can ask questions to current students or just mingle with one another. So without hesitation, I started messaging a bunch of fellow accepted students. I really clicked with one, and over Facebook she told me to text her and that she really enjoys talking to me. Things are going great in that perspective.

    Now the problem. She lives a pretty far distance away 1hr 30min drive (My luck). She has been texting me pretty much nonstop and if I take a while to reply, she'll double text me. This has been happening for about a week. Everyday. I try to slow the communication down a little, with little to no impact.

    How can I avoid falling into the friend zone and at the same time strengthen our bond so I'll still be prime in her eyes.

    There is an orientation in March I believe, so hopefully I can make something work then.

    Any advice would be appreciated.

    Thanks,

    Atlas

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    Default Re: Strange Problem...

    give her the gift of missing you. don't text her every day, but keep texting her weekly. try to always have something new to talk about/tease with. be sure to keep your texts light-hearted and fun. it might take some time to work out a date since you have to go the distance. but once you get on campus you should be able to talk to her, but don't be disapointed if she friendzones you (its likely to happen) worst case she friendzones you and you can use your friendship with her to meet and seduce her girlfriends

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    Default Re: Strange Problem...

    March is a long way away, if you just keep up, there's a good chance it'll grow old, you'll run out of fun things to talk about, you'll lose that spark, and end up just talking. Like friends.

    From the way you progressed to texting and her impatience with your replies, it sounds like she's one for instant gratification. People like this usually buy to fulfill, or forget about it and move on.

    I see these three options as best:
    - Get a date ASAP. Work it out. 1.5 hours isn't that far if you're really hitting it off. Dude, you can make it happen if you want.
    - or, you may be able to work out a way of parking your progress so far but leaving it unfinished, to revisit when March rolls around.
    - Try really hard to keep it fresh.

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    i've been there, long distance relationships are hard to keep. being away from each other definately makes it alot harder to progress. you gotta keep things fresh and try to have a date asap. she won't wait forever, and by the time college rolls around it might be too late. at the very least you will have a good female friend on campus and you can get into her social circle and game other girls in it

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    Default Re: Strange Problem...

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    at the very least you will have a good female friend on campus and you can get into her social circle and game other girls in it
    A *very* good point.

    More valuable than the initial idea of dating this girl, in my opinion.

    Now you cannot lose, unless you totally fark it up


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