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    isaleem is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Facebook game, conversation included

    Hey guys,

    In prior thread I posed the question about picking up a girl that you previously had one-itis with. I got some helpful advice (thanks Beaker52!).

    I come with the hopes of getting some critique on my Facebook and subsequently text game. Again I'm sorry for the long rambly post!

    Background of relationship: This HB 9 or 9 have known each other for donkey's years, however there was a period of about 4 years where we didn't see each other once. Out of the blue she joins the badminton academy where I am a part time coach at and we reconnect, we would chat and see each other once a week for about 2 year. At this point I had no idea about the game or the PUA world and I sucked at talking to strangers etc.

    So as discussed in my previous post, we have both gone to uni, prior to this we had a moment where I was chilling around her house, looking back she was giving some IOIs (at least I think) and out of the blue asks if I like her, me thinking that I should be honest say yeah duh! (bad move I now think), we leave it like that for a bit.
    Few weeks later something happens (something along the lines of neither of us seeing each other, i was genuinely busy however),she hears about me messing around with some other girls and sends a really odd text saying,I send a prickly text and she counters with "I didn't want to lead you on", that was prior to uni.
    So now things have calmed down and we've been messaging on Facebook. In the hopes that I can now actually pick her up, I was hoping that somebody could check out my facebook game and critique it for me The random German text is me being an idiot and messaging the wrong person haha!

    Me:
    Hey dork
    keeping out of trouble?

    Her:
    hey idiot yep. i had a slight mishap on wednesday but apart from that i have been good
    what have you been up to recently?

    Me:
    having fun at uni, projects are so much fun

    Her:
    haha sounds fun! when are they in for?

    Me:
    theyre all in for friday. so no sleep for me the next few days. joy!

    HEr:
    dammn. get of facebook then !!

    Me:
    fine, didnt want to talk to you either

    Her:
    haha well i will probably see you next tuesday at badminton

    Me:
    no you won't, Im taking a break from badminton for a bit,
    sucker!

    Her:
    awww why?
    haha

    Me:
    I have to focus on improving other sports and stuff
    im taking up shooting and now im the vice president of CUCF

    Her:
    woooow. why are you doing so much new stuff? cant you still play badminton over the christmas holidays though???

    Me:
    Im so busy over these days i barely get time to sleep haha
    plus it tends to conflict with the session Im running at the gym

    Her:
    awww rubbish. we will have to meet up some time in the holidays then

    Me:
    Have your organising skills improved that much?!

    Her:
    haha they definately have

    Me:
    cool, Il leave it to you to sort something out

    Her:
    ok coool. shall we try and get holly involved too?

    Me:
    Guten abends. Wie gehts? Was machen Sie am wochenede? X
    bugger, wrong person

    Her:
    hahahahahahahaha
    impressive

    Me:
    atleast you cant understand it!
    if you can handle organising 3 people at once then sure
    has to be something new though

    Her:
    haha i just google translated it so HA! umm sure i will try and organise something
    what do you mean new?

    Me:
    so so sad
    cool, surprise me

    Her:
    what do you mean by new though haha? i have no idea

    Me:
    new generally means something we havent done before
    usaully we fail to do anything, so we have to do something

    Her:
    haha ok. we will do something i promise
    Last edited by isaleem; 01-02-2013 at 06:05 AM. Reason: Remember some more info :)

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    Default Re: Facebook game, conversation included

    Why aren't you taking control and making the plans yourself? She's clearly interested.
    Isolate. Escalate. Penetrate. Again and again.

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    Default Re: Facebook game, conversation included

    Hey mate,

    well thats what im questioning (alongside with what I could have done to improve the above convo).

    With the history we have, Im not sure if Im still friend zoned and should be following the triangle theory by seeming busy most of the time, whilst still dhving and attempting to firmly place myself out of the F-zone.

    Or if I should just go ahead and take whatever she does as her being interested, i.e I make the plans and take the lead...Hope that makes sense :S

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    Default Re: Facebook game, conversation included

    Well played man, really good keeping convo and interest. I have to agree with stealthy, about taking lead and making plans.

    Just go with "Hey, what are you up to -whenever"
    and tell her she has to join you shopping for new pants or something.

    Fun, subtle and different

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    Default Re: Facebook game, conversation included

    Problem is, again, I think there needs to be more stuff of substance at some point. Get a little more serious on certain lines, and then switch back to funny. It can't all be routines and lines.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: Facebook game, conversation included

    My take on this it seem like she controlled the conversation from the time she said " hey idiot". Never hesitate to put a lady in her place, even for something petty. Putting her in her place does not mean you have to jump down her back but it does mean you playfully let her know she cant talk to you like that.
    Truth in every joke they say

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    Default Re: Facebook game, conversation included

    Hye guys, great comments and opinions.

    a few questions if i may be so bold: ive never actually "put somebody" in their place other than in person, so im not sure my usual sarcasm would work via text.

    any ideas?


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