SO before we go any further, I am a female, and she is a female. In case that helps you guys give me ideas.
I have tried to be flirty with her many times, but I am not sure if she is the flirty type or if I am just doing it wrong. We have been on 2 dates. Occasionally she wanted me to spend the night twice (unfortunately, certain things prevented that) i bought her a necklace for her bday that she really liked. She told me "If I didn't like you we would not be hanging out, trust me" so she obviously likes me... I just don't feel any spice in our convos though lol.
This is a typical convo sometimes. this is recent... (we have good days and bad days........)
Me: Happy new years!! How are you?
Her: Happy new years! I'm good. I'm fixin to go for a run. I'll talk to you in a bit
Her: So hows your first day of 2013 been?
Me: It's aight. I see yours is pretty good though. Running in this weather?? (its freezing) Go get 'em tiger lol
Her: Lol, ikr. I'm trying to keep a pattern going. And yes it's COLD outside! Not ready for work tomorrow lol
Me: That's good. Pretty soon it'll become your lifestyle. And when are you ever ready for work? Lol cold or not?
Her: Yes ma'am and you're right lol
Me: Haha. How was your NYE?
Her: It was pretty cool. Ive never done anything before. How was yours?
Me: Never?? &Had a lot of fun with old friends. Didnt get a new years kiss like i hoped buuut i guess i'll live lol
Her: Yeah you'll live lol. I didn't get one either. no biggie
Me: That's good :P now i'm just watching forrest gump for the first time
and she didn't respond after that lol
I AM AWARE that my text game suuuucks. Ugh. Man. I really want to be more flirty sometimes, but I think when I try to be it either comes off as awkward/disturbing or something idk. Or maybe she's just not that kind of girl? HELP ME!