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Thread: Messaging random on FB, need help getting a date for this weekend.

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    Red face Messaging random on FB, need help getting a date for this weekend.

    Whats up PUA! So here's the story..

    So I was browsing my news feed on fb when a girl who commented on one of my female friends status' instantly caught my attention. I found out she was single and thought bam, next girl right here.

    Well about 10 days ago I added her on fb and she accepted. I had a convo with her that went like this:

    Me: Hey, xxxx's friend right?

    Her: Yess

    Me: Oo oo me too lol. Whats up?

    Her: Lol nothing much just working until 9, then out to xxxx later..u?

    Me: Nice, xxxx? Really? You should come to (this city instead).

    Her: I'll see what my girls wanna do.. I think they wanna do xxxx though

    Me: Oh ok, well I think (only mutual friend's name here) and people are going down to (city i was going to instead) so we're gonna hang out there most likely. Oh btw I think you're cute

    Her: Thanks

    Me: Lol i just realized how weird that sounded, i'm sure you get that all the time.

    Her: Not weird at all, youre cute too

    Me: Thanks, well let me know if you're up to grabbing a drink some time. Tonight, tomorrow, whenever

    Her: Ok def will

    <end of convo>

    I know I made a few mistakes and this was about 10 days ago, i haven't heard from her and didntexpect to cause this was our first convo and it was all on fb, not numbers exchanged. She has liked a status or two of mine since then.

    Now I want to set something up tonight for this weekend.

    How to go about this?

    And as you can tell I'm pretty bad at this, lol. was in a very LTR and my game hasn't been up to par in a while.

    Thanks!!

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    Default Re: Messaging random on FB, need help getting a date for this weekend.

    It's been good so far.

    Going forward, remember not to chase her for a hang out, but instead permit her to be invited into your high-value world. I'd also say to go for it to hang this weekend, but don't invest too much in the idea that it HAS TO happen this weekend.

    Maybe chat cockyfunny style and once it's at a high note try something like "well, name, as you can tell I'm a very direct guy so let's cut to the chase and get together this weekend."

    If she says yes use Kinos Number Close (type the local area code followed by a ...?

    You: "Hang?"
    her: "sure"
    You: "407...?"

    If she says no then give a soft IOD, keep fluffing coclyfunny for a bit, then FTC and log off. Live to game another day
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Messaging random on FB, need help getting a date for this weekend.

    Yea, it doesn't HAVE to be this weekend, but I've been putting off talking her for a while because of the holidays and snow storms, so I just want to finally give it a shot. Any clever one liners to talk again after a 10 day hiatus, or am I just over-thinking it? Did I mention I suck at this? lol

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    Default Re: Messaging random on FB, need help getting a date for this weekend.

    Well I tried to be lighthearted and funny, don't think it worked, stopped replying lol, on to the next one..

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    Default Re: Messaging random on FB, need help getting a date for this weekend.

    Maybe you guys can tell me where i went wrong, here is the convo

    Me

    Hey
    How's the new year treating ya

    Her
    Good and you??

    Me
    Pretty good, not really feeling this cold weather though. Dunno who hates it more, me or my pup. (she has a puppy as well)

    Her
    No me!

    Me
    Lol no I hate hate hate the cold. There's no way you hate it more than I

    Her
    It's a pet peeve of mine !!

    Me
    Cold weather yet you live in xx?
    Lol actually I can't really say anything I guess lol

    Her
    Lol

    Me
    A woman of few words huh?

    Me
    Hmm guess I was right


    The last message was sent at about 9:30pm last night, still hasn't shown that she saw it but im sure she did, no response thereafter, where did i go wrong, is this still something to pursue?


    btw, i told you i suck at this lol

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    Default Re: Messaging random on FB, need help getting a date for this weekend.

    hmm she just msg'd "sorry whats up"

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    Default Re: Messaging random on FB, need help getting a date for this weekend.

    Quote Originally Posted by FiftyFive View Post
    Maybe you guys can tell me where i went wrong, here is the convo
    Sure thing bro, but I guess you'll get tired of hearing from me pretty soon

    Her
    Lol
    Here is where you're starting to lose her attention. Her "Lol" is an IOI but she's not engaged. This is the point to stack to something new and exciting "Oh btw...." then go on from there, that's as much preamble as you need to start a new thread to engage her. Then once the new thread runs dry (ending in another "Lol" or equivalent) you can stack to something new or TIE IT IN to the old one

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    A woman of few words huh?
    This is the kind of message a guy send when he's thinking "why hasn't she responded!?! How can I make her respond!?!" if she doesn't respond - that's an IOD, give her one back in the form of a tease/Or/Neg + Freeze Out... or BOTH Lol, that's my fav

    Me
    Hmm guess I was right
    I was gonna say "Noooooo!!!!" - but actually this can kinda work as a neg by calling her out on flaking - especially effective on HB6, not so much on HB8+. For HB7 it can go either way.

    btw, i told you i suck at this lol
    It's cool dawg. Wasn't too long ago I was in the same boat
    Quote Originally Posted by FiftyFive View Post
    hmm she just msg'd "sorry whats up"
    ...nice! Tease her about something "Nmch, I was just doing [that nerdy thing she does that you've already teased her about once or twice before] ...NOT! Lol How's your weekend starting"
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Messaging random on FB, need help getting a date for this weekend.

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    ...nice! Tease her about something "Nmch, I was just doing [that nerdy thing she does that you've already teased her about once or twice before] ...NOT! Lol How's your weekend starting"
    I think I already messed this up, I said "Hey no problem. I'm not crazy about fb messenger, heres my number xxxxxxxxx, text me"

    She saw it yesterday at around 130pm and i havent heard anything since, i think i went in for the number too quick. Should've just continued the convo. I guess the ball is in her court now, not much more i can do. is there?

    Thanks for the help, and im not getting tired of hearing from you!


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