I need some texting advice. Here is a little background.
A few days prior to new years eve, then on new years eve i had been flirting with one of my sister's friends.
Mainly in person, but it turned to text messaging when we weren't around each other. I noticed the girl would have high and low points when flirting, and i think this was because my sister kept telling her that i was no go for her. My sister also pulled me aside a couple of times, making sure i didnt like this girl. On new years eve, the chick was constantly flirting and basically told me she wanted to pick me up. Towards the end of the night, i went and played pool with a friend, then when i returned i noticed the girl was sitting close to my sister and talking to her. I noticed a swift change in her attitude. I believe my sister gave her the talk again lol. When i spoke to her via text message the next day, she mentioned that she couldn't go there, as it would hurt my sister (???). Anyway my sister found out that we'd been messaging later that day and flipped her sh1t at me (and a bit at the girl as well) lol. I was no longer allowed to talk to this girl.
I decided i'd head away for a bit and sort stuff out with my ex gf, as my sister had instructed (my ex gf and i
had been on a break for a while, then i didnt hear from her for a couple of weeks, so i figured all that was done to be honest, until rcently because i thik she got jealous and started trying to talk to me again). Anyway, when i spoke to my sister yesterday, she said that I was _now_ allowed to talk to this girl. Apparently she called the girl to find out if she liked me or not. My sister said that the chick said she wasn't sure, as she hadn't known me for long enough. To be honest, i reckon she was just afraid of my sister's wrath lol. I'm 100% sure she likes me (well was on new years (and prior) and the remaining part of that night when we'd been messaging) and I had heard this from multiple people.
So my question for you guys is, when i go to message this girl next (was thinking in a couple of hours or so), how should i start the conversation and where should i go with it? As an FYI, the girl seems to be pretty smart, but loves flirting. Is there some game plan i can follow? How should i open it? What should i say to keep her interested? When we had been flirting in person and via text messages in the past, I had been able to get some inside jokes between us happening, which i initially started, then she brought back up later, which i could play on, but they have been used in the past and some fresh material would be good lol.
I'm concerned that the girl may not respond, due to how my sister has reacted in the past, even though she has finally given consent. Is there something i can say to get an immediate response from her, getting her interested for the remaining of the conversation?