Re: Girl I've been dating flaking/acting distant
Wow this sounds a bit tough because it doesn't seem you did anything blatantly wrong.
The thing about this game stuff is that it only increases our chances, not guarantee them. This guy could've been an ex or even another guy she's been seeing before she met you. But thinking about this only empowers the obstacles. You have to behave that he doesn't even exist.
There are a few options:
- You can play it cool and just contact her normally. There's little emotional impact, but you keep your cool points and don't look beta.
-You can wait until she contacts you. That way you know she is receptive to you because she contacted you first. But this could take awhile or not even happen. This is a higher risk.
- Lastly you can confront her. This is the highest risk, but the best reward. If you let her know that her behavior that night was unacceptable (don't ask her why she behaved that way. Just state your expectations.) then you are setting standards of what you expect from her. Men of value have standards and are therefore challenging. Of course this could backfire if she doesn't give two sh*ts about you. So use your best judgment. If you feel she would be damn near devastated if you walked out of her life then by all means, confront her.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."