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    jj22 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Reconnected With A Girl After 12 Years - Is She Interested?

    I just signed up for an online dating site about a week ago and during my first day online a girl whose name sounded familiar viewed my profile. While the name rang a bell her pictures looked completely foreign to me so I forgot about her for several days.

    After this brief hiatus I finally decided to message her. The message was both playful and funny and included some questions about whether we knew each other. Her response arrived within a few hours. The overall tone seemed positive and she actually named a few events that we attended together and knew each from.

    Here's the kicker we haven't seen or talked with each other in 12 years! I still only vaguely remember her but she seems to remember me pretty well. I confronted her about this and she claimed she has "a good memory". While that might be true I think that there are some pretty strong feelings on her side. 12 years is an extremely long time. We also talked a little about how she's been using the site for quite some time and isn't finding a guy she can connect with.

    I'd like an outsider's point of view on this. Do you think the fact that this girl remembers me after 12 years of no contact signals she's into me? Do you think the fact that she was willing to talk about her lack of success on the site is an indication that she wants me to ask her out? Oh, and 12 years ago we were in middle school. That was the last time we had contact before a few days ago.

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    jj22 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Reconnected With A Girl After 12 Years - Is She Interested?

    I decided to message her once more to take the plunge and ask her out on a date. She actually came online very quickly after receiving my message (within 10 minutes) and responded. I think that's a positive sign that she at least enjoys reading my messages. Although she agreed to go on a date with me there was a downside. :-( Her response contained some bs that she's agreeing to the date because of her belief in giving guys chances. She concluded her message with "sure why not we can go on a date". I'm pretty sure I jumped the gun asking her to join me on a date and that freaked her out. I think she said yes because she didn't want to hurt my feelings.

    Stupid me couldn't leave it alone. I had to send back another message teasing her. I made a joke about getting a mask for me to wear during the date so I'd look more like her type of guy. Her response this time was pretty distant. "Haha sounds good" and then a few other unimportant words. I still think there were some feelings on her side and she was interested but I didn't let them percolate long enough. I did only reconnect with her a week ago so I still must have been too strangerlike.

    I think I'm going to discontinue messaging her for a few weeks. We didn't setup the location of the date so if there is any genuine interest on her side she'll message me about it. If not, maybe I'll try to message her after the multi-week respite and make a joke about the whole thing.


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