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Thread: Got her number, kissed her, now what?!

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    Wink Got her number, kissed her, now what?!

    Hey,

    I'll start by giving you the backstory... (if you wanna skip through all the main questions at the bottom)

    I met this girl the other night at a house party and we hit it off pretty well, within about an hour I had closed the number and things were going well. I found out from one of her friends (who was drunk) that the girl whos number I had got had a boyfriend but she (the drunk one) had made out with him a couple of days previously. The girl didn't actually know about this incident and I didn't fancy telling her myself..

    The evening went on and we got on really well, I managed to get the kclose about an hour before her drunk friend came over and told her what happened. She responded by just giving me more attention then ringing her boyfriend and breaking up with him over the phone infront of me.

    When she left she said all the usual "I really enjoyed spending the evening with you" stuff and then texted me when she got home for a few hours. She's responding well to my texts now and is giving me good signals. I really like her (potentially girlfriend relationship material..?)

    The part where I need advice is with the texting. I think I'm a pretty good texter but I have a bit of a habbit of getting to "friendzoney" when texting a girl. I need some advice how to build a better romantic attraction with her and any tips to asking her on a date over text would be awesome too. Also I want to make sure I don't become the rebound guy - I don't think I am from the way she is talking to me and the fact we made out before she even knew about the boyfriend cheating but still, any tips on spotting her rebounding?

    Thanks for the help people

    Mike

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    Default Re: Got her number, kissed her, now what?!

    Well, she's most likely rebounding/wanting to.. although being drunk is finicky.

    With that point out of the way, she prob was already very unhappy with him beforehand to kiss/call him up and say "F U" basically.

    Although I can't help with predefined lines on texting, I can tell you to keep it short and simple. Every text she sends you, respond every once in a while. This really works well after you guys have established consistent text talk. Don't seem to eager. If she just left her dude, you have the advantage of being able to text her on a random Friday or Saturday and ask her whats going on. When she most likely says nothing, you say something like "what will you give me to abandon all my cool friends to bring you over/to hang out with us/ etc" something along those lines man.

    I think she's probably not drunk anymore and may be trying to work things out. It's nothing like a girl who gets jealous of another taking what she had, even if she was bored with it. It may have even sparked new interest.

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    Default Re: Got her number, kissed her, now what?!

    Reading your story I thought it was interesting how once she was really into you, she dumped her boyfriend on the phone with you standing RIGHT there. I heard somewhere before that girls are like monkey's swinging from branch to branch... They won't let go of one branch before they have a grasp on another branch.

    Don't have one-itis. You're on a PICK UP forum, not a relationship forum. You have the Mindset of an AFC. Good luck to you either way.

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    Default Re: Got her number, kissed her, now what?!

    Lust while I agree with this being a PU forum and not having oneitis, sometimes it's good to have a stable relationship with a woman who you continue to game throughout the relationship without over doing it

    and yes this girl will get with you and probably put you on the side and look for another guy, she's definitely not girlfriend material, if she was she would've had the decency to tell her ex bf face to face that she wanted to break up, kissed you while she was in a relationship (subjective to opinion) and probably had no shame doing it with you there

    what she can do to him she can easily do to you

    do what you want with her but don't make her the only girl you're seeing, as far as texting goes there's two stickied guides which are A1 so check those out, you'll get the idea


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