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    Big Shawn is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default My first text conversation

    This may be chumplike. The way I approach pickup is doing it freely and not being afraid to take chances and mess up. After all, if I mess up, I learn from my mistake
    Anyways, any constructive criticism would help. Whatever is in brackets is my own commentary.

    Her: Hi shawn who got paranoid in Costa Rica haha. It's Megumi, the asian girl who french inhale's aha. Well yeah, just wanted to give you my number
    [this text was done after the party i met her. What she is talking about are references to our conversation and what we talked about. This text was sent about an hour after I left.

    Me: Hey Megumi, its a bummer school started again, huh. Shouldnt stop us from having fun, though
    [I am in highschool. Yep. This is 2 days after the party. I felt like I was flirting alot with her, so I felt it was okay to be so open like that. Megumi is a unique name, told it to her there, thought i could make a play on her name, but i never did.]

    Her: School is always a bummer yeah, haha. True
    [texts from here on out are 3-10 minutes apart pretty much]

    Me: We need to pick you a nickname for only me and you to use. Any ideas?
    [rereading this it sounds kinda bad, but i was in the mood to try it out. made up on the spot]

    Her: Haha nothing comes to mind. I got lowkey sick so I can't think.

    Me: Shoulda taken my jacket when I offered it to you :P. You stayed home today?
    [I offered her and her friend a jacket at the party when they were cold, but no replies. You will see later she plans to work on this fact and twist it, but I prove resilient]

    Her: No you offered it to my friend! > haha. & naw, it's just a lowkey runny nose, not that bad

    Me: You didn't say you were cold, Dork Butt :P

    Her: you wern't a gentleman & asked me, you dummy >

    me: Okay okay ill make up for it when we meet again soon :P
    [I didnt really know what to say here, spent time thinking about it, best i couild do]

    *note: some emoticons are messed up due to the site automatically making them into faces

    any advice is cool. I really dont mind losing this chick since im not all that much over her. I just wanted to practice.

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    Default Re: My first text conversation

    Nice man. I think you did fairly well! The only advice I can really think of giving you was with your last text. You didn't say anything wrong, but I would have said something that would be a little more interesting/surprising to respond to. Personally, I would have responded with something like "but where's the fun in being a gentleman? it seems like the bad boys have way more fun anyway. i actually bought my leather jacket yesterday. " I dunno. I think it's playful, it's fun. And i think it shows that you don't care if she thinks you're a gentleman at all.

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    Default Re: My first text conversation

    We went to sleep and when I woke up I got this text
    "thank you, that'll be nice haha. so a [school's name] kid, huh? lol."

    Also, when you sleep on something, you think about it. When I woke up this morning, I realised "sick" could have turned into a sexual innuendo?
    "How can you be sick of sex? That stuff never gets boring!" something like that

    Edit: I posted in a rush, so I didn't get to thank you for the advice and encouragement. You're right, your response was probably better. I was baffled when I got that response, since it is somewhat negative, while I expected a laugh or something. Anyways, thanks for the advice.

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    Default Re: My first text conversation

    me: Okay okay ill make up for it when we meet again soon :P
    [I didnt really know what to say here, spent time thinking about it, best i couild do]

    so yeah, you handed her the power and put yourself in a position of sore because you "didnt" pay attention to her, why are you making it up to her i have no idea -------------we'll meet up soon?----why not set a date or time/place to hang at school "soon" is too loose

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    Default Re: My first text conversation

    Continued. I dont know weather I farked it up or its still all good, but either way I dont mind. Im just putting all of my cards on the table and seeing which ones work.

    Me: "Oh, I go to [School] but that doesn't make me a [School] kid. Id say I'm more of a bad boy. Makes life more fun.
    [3 hours after her text ^. I tried to incorporate mark ugly's thing, but I kinda messed up. Didnt do it very smoothly.]

    Her: Haha. But you still go there silly. :b lol bad boy, wut.
    [10 minutes after mine]

    Me: Best thing about my school is that there is a costco a few blocks away. Pizza, in-n-out, what more can you ask for! What's on your menu?
    [I was just being creative and not giving a fark. 4 hours and 30 mins after her post^]

    Her:"Haha yeee that's w'sup we have Chikfil-a, In&Out, McDonald's, Burger King, Carl's Jr, Little Caesars, & starbucks :b there's a mall like within a 20 min walk, so there's more stuff there "

    yep. analysis?

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    Default Re: My first text conversation

    i would reply "so all fatty stuff? :P insert date setup here, maybe one of those places or something better "

    it's fine, just keep the playful / flirty behaviour up

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    Default Re: My first text conversation

    You are still in the game man. But now it's time to close the deal and meet up with her. Ask her which ones of those is her favorite. Answer that you never went there... . And meet up with her there.
    That girl is really interested in you and you don't need to do some crazy things. You can add up by saying thins like: just make sure you don't sit to close to me (making her understand that you would kiss her)

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    Default Re: My first text conversation

    Aha, yeah, im just having too much fun chatting since its my first time flirting via text. We go on, but Im in a good spot to close the game now. Im just flirting and texting for fun at the moment. Last 4 texts, next text i send will close i guess:
    Me: "Only fatty stuff, haha. So what genre of movies do you like?... except for THOSE types :P
    [I hint at her being naughty, porn. Maybe not direct enough? or is she just clueless]

    Her: what are THOSE types haha? & I like comedy, action, horror, romanti. idk everything
    [at this point she answered immediately, when i texted her at a random time]

    Me: Don't play dumb :P. If you like everything, are you saying looove that type of film as well?
    [I missed a you, i know. I was teasing her at this point, just for the hell of it]

    Her: haha fine, uhmm I like romantic comedy & action


    Im going to close next text with a movie. I know not the best date, but why not. Thanks for the help, everyone. Had a pleasure playing the game with this chick. Thats what it was for me, a game.

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    Default Re: My first text conversation

    [2 hours after her last text]
    Me: Havn't seen a movie in theatre in forever! Roll with me this Fri @ 7:23 thirdstreet and we'll have some fun.

    Her: I love your super specific time of 7:23 lol. And idk if I got a ride there!
    [note: I dont have a car... yet]

    Me: My schedule has to be precise . What area do you live in?

    Her: haha why 7:23? & I live in [Town name], right next to [Town name]. basically far from Samo & such
    [Samo is a school]

    Me: Oh, you dont like 7:23? How about 7:24! I gotta go, we'll make a compromise tomorrow

    Her:haha.. you're so strange. & alright fasho, g'dnight

    aaaaaah that strange comment. What do you guys think? doing good?

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    Default Re: My first text conversation

    it's fine, doesn't matter what name she uses, i've had a chick call me bro and fqcked her rofl Strange is nothing different, it's odd, mysterious , weird, unusual whatever you wanna put in there, you won't be coming off like the other guys


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