This may be chumplike. The way I approach pickup is doing it freely and not being afraid to take chances and mess up. After all, if I mess up, I learn from my mistake
Anyways, any constructive criticism would help. Whatever is in brackets is my own commentary.
Her: Hi shawn who got paranoid in Costa Rica haha. It's Megumi, the asian girl who french inhale's aha. Well yeah, just wanted to give you my number
[this text was done after the party i met her. What she is talking about are references to our conversation and what we talked about. This text was sent about an hour after I left.
Me: Hey Megumi, its a bummer school started again, huh. Shouldnt stop us from having fun, though
[I am in highschool. Yep. This is 2 days after the party. I felt like I was flirting alot with her, so I felt it was okay to be so open like that. Megumi is a unique name, told it to her there, thought i could make a play on her name, but i never did.]
Her: School is always a bummer yeah, haha. True
[texts from here on out are 3-10 minutes apart pretty much]
Me: We need to pick you a nickname for only me and you to use. Any ideas?
[rereading this it sounds kinda bad, but i was in the mood to try it out. made up on the spot]
Her: Haha nothing comes to mind. I got lowkey sick so I can't think.
Me: Shoulda taken my jacket when I offered it to you :P. You stayed home today?
[I offered her and her friend a jacket at the party when they were cold, but no replies. You will see later she plans to work on this fact and twist it, but I prove resilient]
Her: No you offered it to my friend! > haha. & naw, it's just a lowkey runny nose, not that bad
Me: You didn't say you were cold, Dork Butt :P
Her: you wern't a gentleman & asked me, you dummy >
me: Okay okay ill make up for it when we meet again soon :P
[I didnt really know what to say here, spent time thinking about it, best i couild do]
*note: some emoticons are messed up due to the site automatically making them into faces
any advice is cool. I really dont mind losing this chick since im not all that much over her. I just wanted to practice.