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    Default How to text your girl less to keep unpredictable

    I've been with this girl recently, and we text a lot. A lot less than we used to, but she really likes me. Tells me "Your smile is so cute ", "I love being in your arms ", other flirty stuff that isn't necessarily that mushy.

    But thats just my problem, over texting I come across as mushy/romantic more than flirty. She loves it, but I think it would be better for myself if I could back away from that. I don't want my current happiness with life (happiest i've been in a while) to be reliant on her.

    She texts me first 90% of the time so I'm obviously doing something right. She tries to text me pretty much all day, younger. But I've started saying things like "I wish you were in my arms right now... " etc, and she receives it well. But I'm starting to get to that point where all of her responses are predictable and it kinda pisses me off that I keep sayings things like that.


    OK, for the real question.
    How can I keep that amount of interest, but make it more fun, and less reliant on texting? I see her everyday at school, hold hands a lot, etc. I feel like I'm better than texting all the time, but something tells me to do it even though I don't really want to... Help

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    Default Re: How to text your girl less to keep unpredictable

    eg her I like holding you in my arms ::: you : I don't like holding you in my arms, you're too annoying :P stuff like that will amp it, don't do it every time because she's used to you being sweet, but that'll keep interest,

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    Default Re: How to text your girl less to keep unpredictable

    I say plenty of mushy gushy stuff that alot of guys steer away from. But I do like to mix it up by sometimes responding with, "You're just saying that to get in my pants" and "I bet you say that to all the guys."

    Remember, it's only a big deal if you make it one. If she freaks and says "Why do you have to ruin the moment" either go with it "Because that's what I do" or respond with the classic "You're so sensitive" and change the subject.
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    Default Re: How to text your girl less to keep unpredictable

    "You're so sensitive" and change the subject.
    do you change subject obviously or subtly, ie OK lets talk about the weather now // or well im having trouble finding the subtle change, it'd come if i was talking to a girl because when i did i said effectively said she was sensitive cause she wasn't really open to talking about sex and i was like alright then, i can see it's too much for you, lets talking about work and how boring it is! (lead right back into it haha)

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    Default Re: How to text your girl less to keep unpredictable

    I just joke about it all the time, I have a girl ATM who keeps saying things like 'I just want to sit and cuddle with you' and 'I just like talking to you all the time' annoying as hell :L but I can get away with anything with her the other day she said 'I just like to sit and talk to you' to which I responded: 'I prefer u on your knees with your mouth full, at least your quiet then ' she loved it cus that's the way I am all the time. If she overreacts to stuff, then just go with the your so sensitive stuff, it does genuinely work. Obv some stuff shouldn't be said until u have slept with her.

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    Default Re: How to text your girl less to keep unpredictable

    Thanks guys, these have all been great replies.
    I felt like I'd always get crap for acting differently when I'm normally sweet, but it makes much more sense this way. "Ruining the moment" works both ways when you're a sweet guy whos on his to become alpha lol, so I just have to learn to not care as much.

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    Default Re: How to text your girl less to keep unpredictable

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    "You're so sensitive" and change the subject.
    do you change subject obviously or subtly, ..."
    I think this is a question lol...

    Depends. U can use the too sensitive comment and then state that you want to change the subject. BUT do it in a kidding way. If u come off too serious, it may look insecure. This option also should be used VERY sparingly again, due to the insecurity factor.

    Better way is to just text something different after u call her sensitive. Texting usually allows for random topic changes throughout the day. Oh and wait a while after calling her sensitive to change topic. Doing it too quick again shows insecurity.
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    Default Re: How to text your girl less to keep unpredictable

    It sounds to me like you're doing just fine...
    Remember the motto; "If it ain't broke, don't fix it!"

    If things are working & going well, there's no need to "change".
    I personally mix it up with my texts thouhg... and always have.

    Sometimes it's sicky sweet, mushy-gushy, romantic.. etc.
    And other times it's more along the lines of being a smarty pants & razzing her.
    Other times it's more mysterious....

    So yes, UNpredictability is definitely the key.

    I wouldn't recommend totally switching gears from what you've been doing, but rather, gradually inject more playful bantering, teasing, smart-ass types of things here & there... but always make sure the "smart ass" comments come across as humorous...

    (You don't want to look like a complete A-hole.)


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    Default Re: How to text your girl less to keep unpredictable

    Yes. If it's going good you don't necessarily have to switch it up. (sometimes you can) Just know that if things start to die down don't freak out. Relationships go through ups and downs. It's not the end of the world and definitely should not be the end of the relationship.

    Usually I make the transition obvious. I immediately change the subject, no matter what it is. It shows that I have better things to talk about they stay on a certain subject. If she decides to linger then you have to choice to allow the convo to continue or say that you will talk to her later.

    If my girl is really upset then I will respect that and talk about it with her. If it's something I feel is small and she doesn't drop it then I'll tell her that I'll talk to her later. Pick your battles.
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