Re: Help! I planned a date 9 days away - when do I tell her?
I guess it comes down to personal preference and what kind of girl she is. But I would not plan a first date 9 days in advance. Think of it this way...the more ahead the plan, the more important the girl is to you.
So say you plan a month in advance...then she better be your wife. If you plan at the last min and just call her out of the blue then she isn't quite as important since you didn't take the time to actually schedule free time for her.
If she says she can't meet you then it's not flaking because it's last min. It simply let's her know she missed her opportunity. Unless you do it the next day and the day after. Then it's just desperate lol.
Oh and yes talk to her. If you can talk everyday that's fine. You want to keep the momentum. So go with the flow. Attraction is like a flame that needs to be fed. There's no such thing as "locking in" what you think you have built with her.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."