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    Default I'm actually fucking pissed

    After a fun convo, we made a date but she was sick. Texted for a few days and she stopped. Froze out for almost a week, sent a bait text with the whole are you in jail thing. She said we'll be in my area and we should grab a tea. I said yeah that sounds good. She said she'll text me when shes going shopping.

    I texted her "better not flake on our date!" she said. "Haha date, im at work". followed by, "this isn't going to work good luck on plentyoffish".

    I'm farking livid for this bitch treating me this way. Especially after we got a long so well. I totally want to farking flip out but its probably better that I dont burn bridges so I'll probably just perma-freeze her now.

    Is the most alpha way to deal with this to just not respond?

    What makes women do this?
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    Default Re: I'm actually fucking pissed

    Don't let your ego get the better of you. Just reflect, think about what went wrong, learn, and move on to the next one.

    Don't let one broad bring you down!

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    Default Re: I'm actually fucking pissed

    I'd say "Okay bye " but that's just my cockyness getting to me haha. It sucks dude but it happens. Look at it this way, better this happen then her try to put you in the friendzone. Just don't get mad at her or let her know you're mad then later on when she sees you with a HB10 she's fall apart
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: I'm actually farking pissed

    Quote Originally Posted by konman View Post
    After a fun convo, we made a date but she was sick. Texted for a few days and she stopped. Froze out for almost a week, sent a bait text with the whole are you in jail thing. She said we'll be in my area and we should grab a tea. I said yeah that sounds good. She said she'll text me when shes going shopping.

    I texted her "better not flake on our date!" she said. "Haha date, im at work". followed by, "this isn't going to work good luck on plentyoffish".

    I'm farking livid for this bitch treating me this way. Especially after we got a long so well. I totally want to farking flip out but its probably better that I dont burn bridges so I'll probably just perma-freeze her now.

    Is the most alpha way to deal with this to just not respond?

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    Considering you met online when you said "you better not" that may have came across as menacing. I think you freaked her out

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    Default Re: I'm actually fucking pissed

    Honestly you shouldnnt have texted " You better not flake". I know you wanted to sounds funny but that can come off as arrogant/controlling and even insecure ( how many times has this guy been flaked on...sounds kinda bitter).

    Its stupid but unless you already established you are sarcastic and you have created a ton of sedcution...girls will find any reason to dump you to move onto a guy who can get her more excited abotu meeting up.....i wouldnt have gone with what you wrote.. Iwould have said something like " Shopping? Oh so you are getting something sexy to wear on our date?"

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    Default Re: I'm actually farking pissed

    Well, we made plans to hang out for a coffee after she goes shopping but then at 4:30pm (stores closed at 5:00pm that day) rolls around and no call no nothing. I did get bitter at that point, but I wasn't saying it in an angry way. When she told me she was at work, it showed lack of respect to tell me what's going on anyway. Good riddance.

    I appreciate what you're saying though. I will try and reword it better for next time.
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    Default Re: I'm actually farking pissed

    "" ""I texted her "better not flake on our date!" she said. "Haha date, im at work". followed by, "this isn't going to work good luck on plentyoffish"."""

    Well, I'm certainly not an expert PUA but from what I have learned about women it was most likely your "better not..." statement that relegated you to the rejected corner. Learn from this and move on. True alpha would. But if you just have to get back in the game somehow, try something really lame like "OMG...my lil sis picked up my phone while I was over fixing something at my mother's house."

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    Default Re: I'm actually farking pissed

    Quote Originally Posted by konman View Post
    Well, we made plans to hang out for a coffee after she goes shopping but then at 4:30pm (stores closed at 5:00pm that day) rolls around and no call no nothing. I did get bitter at that point, but I wasn't saying it in an angry way. When she told me she was at work, it showed lack of respect to tell me what's going on anyway. Good riddance.

    I appreciate what you're saying though. I will try and reword it better for next time.

    yeah for next time. to be honest with you....this one did sound like a selfish uncompasionate bitch ( who runs errands before a date with the potential to be late and stuff....and says "good luck on plentyofish"?)

    Whenever I get those kinds of responses or find a chick who is drama/bitch....i feel like I dodged a bullet and they did me a favor of exposing that to me so early on so I can find an actual HB thats cool.

    Dont let the bitterness get a grip on you. So ease to let bitterness set in, become overlty sarcastic, and ....and then think nobody has a sense of humor( aka its everyone else...nothing wrong with me),


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