Alright Before we begin, let me start by saying, I am a girl. I am bi. Talking to another female who is "curious". We have been talking for about 5 months. Ive taken her on 2 dates. Bought her a necklace on her bday that she loved. We've kissed a couple times. I've helped her out so much with moving and when she was dealing with ex-boyfriend drama. Me.
Well lately, I have been suspecting that she had been also talking to this guy. But just the way he would comment on her status'. He would call her "boo" and nicknames like that. I didn't think much of it then.
UNTIL recently she posted a status talking about the things she has gained since moving to this state. In which the guy proceeded to post "Don't forget you gained a new boo :-)" That's when I started to think she was messing around with other people. (she used to call me 'sweetheart'...she doesn't do that anymore)
Do I have a right to be upset? We aren't in a relationship. Maybe I am just old fashioned, but i only ever talk to one person at a time. And it just feels weird that she's kissing me, and always wants me to stay over when this other guy could be doing the same. Not to mention, he's OLDER than me (I am younger than her) and he owns his own business. And me, as a female, am not in any mood to be trying to compete with a MAN relationship wise. I'm barely transferring to university.
I don't know how to feel. I really like her, but i don't want to be some experiment to her while she's talking to other dudes. I feel like I am being used. I've done a lot for her. Not to mention, our text convos lately have gone really down hill. She takes FOREVER to text back these days. Either sometimes it'll take her 1-3 hours. Anything after that...she doesn't text back. And it really has me wondering.