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Thread: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

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    Default Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    Quick background: I recently met a girl a few weeks ago, she was our waitress while my family and I were on a mini vacation just an hour from where I live. Anyways I left my number for her and she texted me that night go meet her for drinks, and so we did and had a really fun night.

    A few ways she showed interest:
    1. besides her seeming to have a good time, the next day she told me she had a really good time with me the night before.
    2. Apparently my number wasn't legible when I wrote it down so she tried like texted 10 different numbers until she got the right number.

    To the point:
    I'm a little annoyed with myself because I think I may have texted her a little too much the first week or so. I would never send 2 messages in a row without her replying, but whenever I sent one It was trying to strike some sort of conversation. It would take her sometimes a full day to reply so I didn't really know what that was about so I sincerely asked her "did you just get that text"? and she said shes sorry she's just bad at texting (I'm thinking more uninterested?).

    Anyways,, i sent two messages in a row recently and they were
    Jan 8th: "Doing anything fun or interesting tonight in the big city of ******?"
    No replies, so yesterday I sent another one:
    Jan 11th: "Hope the arm is doing alright , any fun plans for the weekend ? "
    And still no reply.

    This is what my problem is. I haven't met a girl like this in sometime so I want to put some effort in it before I move on.

    Should I send her another text of some sort? For a moment I was thinking about apologizing for the bombardment of texts (even though I know I wasn't really bombarding her) but I don't want to look too weak.
    Something else I was considering was just maybe going snowboarding where she lives soon with a buddy and asking her if she wants to "grab a drink before we was back" or something of the sort.

    That's pretty much where I'm at as of now, I'm usually fairly clever at this but I don't really know how I want to proceed, so any advice would be appreciated!

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    Default Re: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    Jan 8th: "Doing anything fun or interesting tonight in the big city of ******?"
    No replies, so yesterday I sent another one:
    Jan 11th: "Hope the arm is doing alright , any fun plans for the weekend ? "
    clearly your texts are soo boring that if a girl sent me a text like that i probably wouldn't reply try flirting with her over text,say something light and fun,
    if she still doesn't reply then i would forget about her, if she's not going to reply to your texts, your waisting your time on her that could be spent on other better girls.

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    Default Re: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    I sent a pretty good third text and she responded, I will text her back tomorrow and see what happens!

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    Default Re: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    Quote Originally Posted by Randomnp View Post
    I sent a pretty good third text and she responded, I will text her back tomorrow and see what happens!
    Now I am curious. How did you reengage?

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    Default Re: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

    Read this!

    Now you need to stop being soo Beta! Never apologise unless you have done wrong. Apologising for sending too many texts both makes you look week and draw her attention to the fact that you text too much.

    You need to make your texts more interesting!

    YOU MUST WAIT AT LEAST 2 DAYS FOR A REPLY! sometimes I have waited a week without a reply before, when you re-engage don't ask questions either.

    lesson over haha

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    Default Re: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    Quote Originally Posted by californication View Post
    Now I am curious. How did you reengage?
    I sent this: both the last part is just an inside joke.

    Jan 12
    Hey Indiana Jones, next time I'm up hitting the slopes at ****** and you have time, you should join me for a beer! I will even have one waiting...and it will be labeled : "(hidden name): Bearwolf slayer" or something fierce of the sort

    Also..... Again haha my last text was:
    Jan 14
    (name)! Hey. Are you available Saturday night? I have a great idea! I was thinking about hitting the slopes at ****** Saturday, and afterwards we could grab some grubb and then make our way to the SnoBar for a few drinks! Let me know what you think =)

    But still no response ha

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    Default Re: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    Quote Originally Posted by Randomnp View Post
    I sent this: both the last part is just an inside joke.

    Jan 12
    Hey Indiana Jones, next time I'm up hitting the slopes at ****** and you have time, you should join me for a beer! I will even have one waiting...and it will be labeled : "(hidden name): Bearwolf slayer" or something fierce of the sort

    Also..... Again haha my last text was:
    Jan 14
    (name)! Hey. Are you available Saturday night? I have a great idea! I was thinking about hitting the slopes at ****** Saturday, and afterwards we could grab some grubb and then make our way to the SnoBar for a few drinks! Let me know what you think =)

    But still no response ha
    those are good texts, if she didn't reply she isn't interested, maybe if one of those had been your first text you could have done better. better luck next time!!

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    Default Re: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    So, she ended up calling me Saturday to see if I wanted to go out and drink after I went snowboarding that day. We had a really good time, we drank, went dancing, and she was pretty touchy feely throughout the night ...from what I can remember. Annnyways, she still rarely responds to my texts and hasn't returned a call of mine from Friday. I think there's a recent ex boyfriend involved and it seems that she isn't interested unless I am seeing her in person. So I'm just assuming she just isn't interested.

    So, im at a standstill. Think somehow asking her why she isn't interested is a bad idea? If so, what would be a good way of going about it?

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    Default Re: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    The text phone game has alot to do with circumstance and logistics.

    If you know that she just broke up, then it's a matter of circumstance. The fact that she initiated a call is a good sign. The problem is the sh1tty thing about going out with girls who just broke up is you don't know if you are just there as a temporary fix to ease the pain. Basically rebound material. But hey if you are there for a non serious rebound, then np. But definitely not LTR prospect.

    I wouldn't ask her "Why she isn't interested" and put her on the fence. I'd just keep it cool and make it look like I'm a fun person (the kind of person she needs to be with, the kind of person she broke up with her exbf to be with. The bright green pastures waiting).

    One of the funniest texts I sent to a girl who just broke up was:

    "Hey, just remember. The best way of getting over an ex is to have sex with me."

    This is pretty high risk, go for broke text, but usually effective in sparking a emotional response out of them.

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    Default Re: Girl had shown Interest, but hasn't responded in 2 days?

    Quote Originally Posted by I.M.Mortal View Post
    The text phone game has alot to do with circumstance and logistics.

    If you know that she just broke up, then it's a matter of circumstance. The fact that she initiated a call is a good sign. The problem is the sh1tty thing about going out with girls who just broke up is you don't know if you are just there as a temporary fix to ease the pain. Basically rebound material. But hey if you are there for a non serious rebound, then np. But definitely not LTR prospect.

    I wouldn't ask her "Why she isn't interested" and put her on the fence. I'd just keep it cool and make it look like I'm a fun person (the kind of person she needs to be with, the kind of person she broke up with her exbf to be with. The bright green pastures waiting).

    One of the funniest texts I sent to a girl who just broke up was:

    "Hey, just remember. The best way of getting over an ex is to have sex with me."

    This is pretty high risk, go for broke text, but usually effective in sparking a emotional response out of them.
    Thanks man solid response, that last quote was hilarious. Right on ill just keep quiet for now and just go with the flow I suppose.

    Thanks!


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