This girl I've been seeing always gets weird the day of our dates because she feels funny about relationships.
Anyways, here's our convo:
Me: Hey Dorkbutt, how you holdin up?
Her: Watching a movie about a family that lives forever hahah
Me: Woah that would suck, I'd hate to live forever, but I'm sure I could find a way to stay busy
Her: Haha. Cause you're always sooo busy right
Me: Just soooo busy, I dunno what to do with all that time, I seem to talk and spend time with you alot though
Me: Seems to work out pretty well
Her: Now we're gonna have pizza. Yum. (She blatantly ignores any time I try to be sweet these days and then decides she'll be sweet after the date)
Me: Okay look, I get you're scared of the girlfriend "label", but if youre going to avoid when I say something sweet because you're afraid, I'm not okay with that
(I thought that was really rude considering how she normally acts with me)
Her: What do you want me to do then? Because I can't be all sweet all the time. (She usually is, she just gets freaked out). I'm just not like that. (Partially true). And I don't wanna pretend (Only reason she has to not "pretend" is because she feels weird today).
Me: Honestly, I know youre not like that and I'm not gonna have a fight with you about it, I just have a basic expectation of you acknowledging what I say, that was just rude. But let's talk about something else.
Her: Okay well sorry. Didn't mean to be rude or whatever.
I think I'd like a relationship with this girl. But I also feel as if she's holding me back unless I do see her exclusively soon, I don't have her on a pedestal but she does affect me. I also feel as if she's gonna keep being like this, I should spend time on self growth rather than trying this with a girl who doesn't know what fvck she wants.