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    Default First Date Ideas Anyone?? For girls you just met

    What are some good date/hangout idea for girls you just met or recently number closed?

    I've learned that dinner and a movie is not really a very good way to go for a first date and it's too chode and expensive for playing the numbers.

    What would be something I could do comfortably that would help take some of the anxiety of the situation off my chest?
    When I take a new girl for a first date out to dinner and a movie, I feel like this is the wrong way to go, that I have to impress her, and that she is somehow grading her experience and deciding to buy into this or not. Movies and dinner would be something I would want to treat a girl to if she proves she's worth it.

    As for meeting up at a bar or club I'm not too comfortable with this idea either. Why would I take a girl I have weak or budding ties with out somewhere where I could lose her to competition? Also, I haven't spent much time in bars or clubs and I'm not very comfortable here yet, although I've made a little progress here.

    It seems like part of the grueling process of meeting a girl and trying to get dates is figuring out where to take her and what my best options are. I think if I can get this area handled it would make the whole process a whole lot easier and more enjoyable and I think this post could be valuable topic for all on this forum.

    One more important piece of information, I'm 22 and a college student and girls that I would be taking out would be around my age and most-likely students as well.

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    Default Re: First Date Ideas Anyone?? For girls you just met

    Bars I find are the best option. They are less pressurised and more informal than dinner and a movie.

    To help you feel less uncomfortable; moving to a 2nd and possibly a 3rd bar the same night could boost your chances of kiss closing. This tactic has worked for me before. It keeps things fun and unpredictable.

    Hope it works out for you
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    Default Re: First Date Ideas Anyone?? For girls you just met

    Coffee shops are great. They have the same advantages of a bar but without a lot of the downside.

    Another good idea I've read is a bookstore with a coffee shop. You guys can grab a coffee, the comb through the bookstore and look at books.

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    Default Re: First Date Ideas Anyone?? For girls you just met

    I'm in the same boat because the girl I'm taking out is only 20 so bars aren't an option. I was thinking of like indoor mini golf, and then a Japanese resteraunt for some shusi. That way I get two locations, and the sushi place is close to my house.

    Try an activity or check out living social and stuff.

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    Default Re: First Date Ideas Anyone?? For girls you just met

    Bowling alleys and pool halls are my go-to options. Casual enough for low-pressure conversation, but more intimate than a bar.
    Currently focusing on inner game

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    Default Re: First Date Ideas Anyone?? For girls you just met

    Apologies guys I forget 21 is the drinking age in the US.

    I think the principal still applies though, mixing up the location adds a little more excitment to the date and keeps her guessing.


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    Default Re: First Date Ideas Anyone?? For girls you just met

    I'm trying to avoid the typical movie and dinner date first time also.

    Pool halls and bars sound interesting. I think one thing to keep in mind is a follow up for these kinds of things --- like the coffee shop and then skimming through the bookstore.

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    Default Re: First Date Ideas Anyone?? For girls you just met

    For me its always been about conversation. So chat over a drink is the best. If they dont drink alcohol then a cafe for coffee. Ordering food straight up puts out some pressure. Ordering a drink does not disturb the conversation and alcohol can loosen up both of you. If its going well then order some food later - by then you will already know she's good to suck your balls from all the heroic things you've said.

    The key is conversation. Movies *yawn*.


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