What are some good date/hangout idea for girls you just met or recently number closed?
I've learned that dinner and a movie is not really a very good way to go for a first date and it's too chode and expensive for playing the numbers.
What would be something I could do comfortably that would help take some of the anxiety of the situation off my chest?
When I take a new girl for a first date out to dinner and a movie, I feel like this is the wrong way to go, that I have to impress her, and that she is somehow grading her experience and deciding to buy into this or not. Movies and dinner would be something I would want to treat a girl to if she proves she's worth it.
As for meeting up at a bar or club I'm not too comfortable with this idea either. Why would I take a girl I have weak or budding ties with out somewhere where I could lose her to competition? Also, I haven't spent much time in bars or clubs and I'm not very comfortable here yet, although I've made a little progress here.
It seems like part of the grueling process of meeting a girl and trying to get dates is figuring out where to take her and what my best options are. I think if I can get this area handled it would make the whole process a whole lot easier and more enjoyable and I think this post could be valuable topic for all on this forum.
One more important piece of information, I'm 22 and a college student and girls that I would be taking out would be around my age and most-likely students as well.