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    Default plz help with my current situation!

    So I have been hanging out with this girl pretty much everyday for a month now, we have kind of a weird relationship, when we first hung out we were pretty flirty until her friend ratted me out and told her I have a girlfriend. The next day I sorted things out and said me and my gf are on a break so we can continue too keep hanging out. We started talking lots and getting close even talk lots about sex. There has been times when we kiss even had her naked but we never had sex. but when it comes too just kissing and holding hands on sober terms she gets uncomy and says where not dating so she does not wanna get affectionate because it makes her uncomtorble. Basically we talked a few times about our feelings and she says she likes me but the thing is she said she wont sleep with me because she only sleeps with guys she dates and she says she wont date me lol. The reasons for that is because 1.the whole gf situation from the beginning, thinks im shady now and does not want drama 2.she is a university student and is into good boys and im kind of a bad ass and she does not agree with the type of lifestyle I am somewhat in. 3. She thinks I can be a asshole with no filters when I talk to her lol maybe I have some negs that are a little out of line. But we honestly hang out everyday and PRETTY MUCH are dating just without the sex and the kissing and title lol sounds weird right? but then when she has a few drinks she gets flirty with me and her true emotions come out and she even admits to me she keeps her shield up with me. Somedays she is very consistent when we hang out and cool and things flow really good, other times she is bratty and acts very reserved haha. I don't know what I should do or where this is going or if she is just confused (she also just got out of a short term relationship if this is relevant). I do not know what I should do or expect or what she expects or how too make this go further because now im getting confused lol so any suggestions or advice would be much appreciated thanks!
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    Default Re: plz help with my current situation!

    we were pretty flirty until her friend ratted me out and told her I have a girlfriend.
    i back her up a hundred percent

    But we honestly hang out everyday and PRETTY MUCH are dating just without the sex and the kissing and title lol sounds weird right?
    yeah that's the brick wall, i've been there, just freeze her out for a bit and then try again, use the search button to look up Last Minute Resistance

    but then when she has a few drinks she gets flirty with me and her true emotions come out and she even admits to me she keeps her shield up with me.
    you need to bring her personality out minus her drinks, just be more playful and flirt a lot, my ex was similar and i called her out on her inconsistencies which changed a lot for me

    (she also just got out of a short term relationship if this is relevant)

    yeah this sounds like the reason why she doesn't want you, you're not long term relationship material to her, in the back of her mind she's probably worried you'll cheat on her, because you wanted to get with her while having a gf

    at the moment she sounds like your only option (aside from your gf) - i don't like people who get with other chicks while they're in a relationship (committed) even if you are on break, because if you're on break you should've ended it when the break begun

    if it's a quickfix you're looking for, it'll be quite difficult, if it's game changing then good luck

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    Default Re: plz help with my current situation!

    Thanks for the reply brother. I agree with you 100 percent, kind of everything I though just wanted another opinion too see if I was thinking on the right track. We still talking lots but I think im gonna just break it off with her for a bit let everyone re-evaluate there thoughts then see what happens during a later date. Do you think I should stop talking too her completely or just keep meeting and chatting too a minimum? thanks again

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    Default Re: plz help with my current situation!

    just friendzone her and then take her out when u want, don't be cruel about it though :P


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