So I have been hanging out with this girl pretty much everyday for a month now, we have kind of a weird relationship, when we first hung out we were pretty flirty until her friend ratted me out and told her I have a girlfriend. The next day I sorted things out and said me and my gf are on a break so we can continue too keep hanging out. We started talking lots and getting close even talk lots about sex. There has been times when we kiss even had her naked but we never had sex. but when it comes too just kissing and holding hands on sober terms she gets uncomy and says where not dating so she does not wanna get affectionate because it makes her uncomtorble. Basically we talked a few times about our feelings and she says she likes me but the thing is she said she wont sleep with me because she only sleeps with guys she dates and she says she wont date me lol. The reasons for that is because 1.the whole gf situation from the beginning, thinks im shady now and does not want drama 2.she is a university student and is into good boys and im kind of a bad ass and she does not agree with the type of lifestyle I am somewhat in. 3. She thinks I can be a asshole with no filters when I talk to her lol maybe I have some negs that are a little out of line. But we honestly hang out everyday and PRETTY MUCH are dating just without the sex and the kissing and title lol sounds weird right? but then when she has a few drinks she gets flirty with me and her true emotions come out and she even admits to me she keeps her shield up with me. Somedays she is very consistent when we hang out and cool and things flow really good, other times she is bratty and acts very reserved haha. I don't know what I should do or where this is going or if she is just confused (she also just got out of a short term relationship if this is relevant). I do not know what I should do or expect or what she expects or how too make this go further because now im getting confused lol so any suggestions or advice would be much appreciated thanks!