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    houstoncrowe is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl I know Showed up in my matches on OKC

    Hey there, PUAs

    Im pretty new to online dating OKC and POF. However, so far it has been going pretty well. This girl I used to talk to awhile back, more like a few yrs ago showed up in my matches on OKC. Im wondering what kind of message I should send her. We are friends on Facebook. I havent talked to in a good lil bit. This is why i need some help from the best.

    I dont know if i should come on really strong because i actually know this girl.

    Any kind of help would be great? If yall have had any similar situations feel free to share/discuss it would be more than helpful.

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    Default Re: Girl I know Showed up in my matches on OKC

    OMG! I can't believe you're stalking me. WTF

    Try something funny, I am not an online gamer by no means but I will open girls I bump into in person (chicks i went to high school with, etc.) with something like that. Makes them giggle and sets the tone of the convo.

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    houstoncrowe is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl I know Showed up in my matches on OKC

    Not bad, Fuser!

    Any more ideas?

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    Default Re: Girl I know Showed up in my matches on OKC

    Personally I'd leave it. Girls can be a little coy about online dating and would rather only meet guys fresh from these sites. She has worked hard on an image that she portrays to her friends and she doesn't want that to be jeopardised by someone recognising her on a dating site.

    I've been hooking up with a girl from my hometown for a few years now and spotted her on POF when I was back with my folks over Christmas. So, I sent her a message. No reply. Suddenly ignoring my calls and text messages AND failed to turn up for a date we'd arranged a while in advance. Ouch! LOL!

    You have at least learned she is free and single. Approach her in person, or Facebook, but never mention the online dating site.


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