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    tiafefa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Lesson to be learned?

    Im still pretty new to this and Im trying to get the hang of it. Heres my first attempt at a university I just transferred to.

    I registered for a math class that was an honors class(not supposed to be in). The prof kicked me out as well as two others to go talk to the math dept because we were put in the wrong class. One of the girls that got kicked out was an HB8 and I started talking to her as we walked to the building. Once everything was sorted before she left. I felt like getting her number then would be weird so I just asked her to put her name on my fb on my phone. I waited like 2 days to send her a message:

    me: so im pretty sure I failed my first math quiz today -.- hows your class?

    HB: haha i ended up transferring out because the teacher had bad reviews on rate my professor. Im in stats now

    me: lol I told you! but whos gonna be my study buddy now?

    hb: haha sorry but not me thank god. Im so glad I switched to stats, the teacher is awesome

    me: what happened to the math major? (the prof in the class we got kicked out of said she was a math major but when i spoke to her she said she wasnt) I thought you were supposed to be a genius

    hb: oh yeah thats right im a math major i almost forgot

    me: why dont i get your number so when i have a "super hard" calculus problem i know who to hit up haha

    hb: dont you dare ever call me to ask about anything that has to do with calc. ##########

    me: oh sh!t.....then why did you give me your number....?;P

    She never answered to that message, im guessing because we had already switched to the phone:

    me: Ill give you 50 cents if you figure out who it is

    HB: did that fancy math class teach you how to count to 50 cents

    (now heres where im guessing i forked up, i know its lame haha i was just trying to be funny)
    me: all the way to 50! im a big boy now

    HB: good for you my friend

    me: im gonna go to bed so ill ttyl gnight

    HB: me too, night

    I texted her the next day:
    me: Hey there ;P

    no answer...

    Im trying to get opinions where I messed up, what I can do better, and if this is still savable. I know this is a super long post but I thought the more detail the better the advice I could get. All your opinions will greatly be appreciated!

    If its not savable then whatever each situation is a lesson, Im just trying to see what that lesson is. lol

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    Default Re: Lesson to be learned?

    I don't really notice anything that you did wrong. Some things could have been better, but you didn't really hurt yourself. She's being receptive so that's good. The only thing you need to focus on is your frame.

    Think of your frame as the way you look at the world. That you are surrounded by this bubble on how you view everyone in this world. Even yourself. Positively or negatively are broad examples.

    You have to get her sucked into your frame and playing by your rules. Such as with the part about the 50 cents comment. It wasn't bad per say, but her teasing you and you completely accepting that teasing is falling into her frame. It's not a very big frame so no worries. But you'll need to know how to gain control of the frame for the more important stuff later on. You could've added "... I'm a big boy now! But don't worry. One day you will get there also."

    Your frame is that YOU are the prize. That she wants you...in a bad way. And you'll only allow her to be bad with you if she meets your expectations. Have this in your mind and all your words and actions will be spot on.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    tiafefa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Lesson to be learned?

    Thanks man that actually helps a lot.


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