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    californication is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Played with the joke too much, farked up at the end

    Met this girl in the club on saturday. We had a good chemistry, I was in stated introduced myself as a full time male Stripper (later on I told her the truth lol) and made plans about getting married to her. LAter on isolated her from her depressed friend, danced, got physical but couldnt pull her because her friend was gonna stay at hers.

    Me: Hey its californication aka the male stripper
    Her: (2 days later) Hi stripper!!
    Me: (8 hours later) How is your day going my potential wife?
    Her: (45 min later) )) very good, busy day, what about yours?
    Me: (1 hour later): Just came back from work, getting ready for a friend's party
    Me; (1 min later): I thought you weren't working so how come you have a busy day, shopping?
    Her: (1min later) Well you are clever, but there is some other things I could do or look after
    Me: (1 min later) Such as?
    Her: (1min later) You never think I could possibly have a baby?
    Me: (1 min later) Now I understand why you have a big ass :P
    Her: (1 min later) ))))
    Her: (2 min later) Now you stopped being funny... (fark I didn't see this text at the beginning (( )
    Me: (2 min later) Oh don't worry about your ass, as a male stripper I know some great exercises. We can do them together and you will have a great shape lol
    Her: (1 min later) You should be more worried about your ass. I am happy with mine

    She is still playful here so I thought I could carry on

    Me: (1 min later) Ohh you have already checked out my ass then. Well thats hot :P
    Her: (1min later) Don't think so... enjoy your party

    Well she suddenly took things serious and cut the convo. I didn't text anything afterwards as her Bitch Shield would be on so even if I text the best line ever, it wouldn't be efficient (I guess). I am just waiting for her to calm down. Will give a day break and probably call her on thursday. Alternatively I can text her something like;

    "Wauww I met 3 Czech people at the party yeaterday. We had a drinking competition and I can say that they can DRINK a lot lol"

    And from here if she bites I can challenge her to have a drinking competition with me etc..

    Thoughts about my reengagement text?

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    Default Re: Played with the joke too much, farked up at the end

    no that sounds lame no kidding, idk it seems like she got defensive when you started talking about her ass rofl, I mean the cue that gives it away is her lack of emoticons, it was constant in the beginning and then suddenly drops

    calling a chick fat without atleast Being there in person is bad, and secondly if ur gonna call her fat as a joke, do it after you've talked about gym, these are really the only two ways, there's others but these are safe and it flows naturally ( well u can make it flow naturally )

    saying that u came on strong too quickly IMO is subjective, but saying she had a big ass was the tip of the iceberg

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    Default Re: Played with the joke too much, farked up at the end

    Yea, everything sounded good until you told her she had a big ass LOL. A little too much push there and you dugged too deep on that neg. Systems unrecoverable. BOOSH CRASH! One thing I steer clear from is commenting on women's weight (the size of their ass indicative of their weight). They sensitive about that sh1t as guys are sensitive about their height or penis size.

    Yea, let her cool off. Try again in a couple of days. Better be your best text. I got a feeling she might respond, but in case she doesn't...Live and learn.

    To recover, you are really going to have to make her laugh and spit out her drink.

    "Hey, I'm planning to get cosmetic surgery - a penis reduction. What's a good length?" and if she says "Why?" Tell her "It has a tendency to sneak out of my pants and hijack my texts."

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    Default Re: Played with the joke too much, farked up at the end

    mortal, that doesn't come off as way too cocky or like one of the other guys that cat calls?

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    Default Re: Played with the joke too much, farked up at the end

    The ironic thing is she is actually super fit and when she played with my joke (saying look at your ass instead etc) i thought she was enjoying the convo and I pushed too much. Yes she became defensive

    Anyway its time to recover, thoughts about my reengagement text?

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    Default Re: Played with the joke too much, farked up at the end

    Of course I have to have a say for everything.

    I like to use Mystery Method as a general outline of how an interaction should progress. From attraction, to comfort, and finally seduction.

    You clearly went from building attraction to seducing her. Completely disregarding her comfort level. I felt uncomfortable just reading this interaction lol.

    In Magic Bullets it's referred to the Emotional Progression Model. Check it out and make sure you build comfort with a woman first before seducing her. As for how to recover? Sadly only chance can help you now I think. Good luck.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Played with the joke too much, farked up at the end

    mortal, that doesn't come off as way too cocky or like one of the other guys that cat calls?
    Not at all. If you look at the rhetoric.

    This is what you call self-deprecation humor to make her laugh. You are subtly telling her that you shouldn't have said what you did without being apologetic.

    Another way of example of self-deprecation humor is an opening like:

    "Hey, I was standing over there and couldn't help but notice you noticing me. Whew! The temperature was off the wall. You know the you way were trying NOT to look at me. I can tell there's a lot of heat there."

    Cat calling would be like bunch of guys hooting and hollering at girls on the street. "Hey baby! Nice ass!" Usually disrespectful behavior out in the public. Makes the girl embarrassed. No game.

    But in all honesty Californication, go with your gut feel and try what you got, if you fail. You got only yourself to blame lol and you can learn from your own mistakes. Humor is subjective and you know this woman's humor best (well maybe not due to that text lol) but better than all of us.


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