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    ok ive been texting this girl for a few weeks now.. I met her at a club its my friends girlfriend's friend.. and we went clubbing a few times. Randomly ofcourse not my choice . Last time i talked to her was saturday night after clubbing. But before that night she never replied my text. This is how it ended.

    Her: Where do you work?
    Me: finished work now!!ohh and im in a cleaning business lol
    Me: So how was ur day
    Her: lol I'm still at work!
    Me: aha where do you work
    HER: Buffalo
    Me: thats chill most my clothes r from there haha what time did u start today?
    HER: i can give u 60 percent off on jeans if u come haha
    Me: thats sick which buffalo u work at?
    Her:rockland
    ME: noo way thats awesome we'll have to find out what days u work and i can pass by and check out the jeans lol

    never replied me back, that was on a the 10th of january.
    i talked to her after that but nothing serious, what should i do? is she just a tease??

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    Default Re: little problem iso help

    Quote Originally Posted by Sogr8 View Post
    ok ive been texting this girl for a few weeks now.. I met her at a club its my friends girlfriend's friend.. and we went clubbing a few times. Randomly ofcourse not my choice . Last time i talked to her was saturday night after clubbing. But before that night she never replied my text. This is how it ended.

    Her: Where do you work?
    Me: finished work now!!ohh and im in a cleaning business lol
    Me: So how was ur day
    Her: lol I'm still at work!
    Me: aha where do you work
    HER: Buffalo
    Me: thats chill most my clothes r from there haha what time did u start today?
    HER: i can give u 60 percent off on jeans if u come haha
    Me: thats sick which buffalo u work at?
    Her:rockland
    ME: noo way thats awesome we'll have to find out what days u work and i can pass by and check out the jeans lol

    never replied me back, that was on a the 10th of january.
    i talked to her after that but nothing serious, what should i do? is she just a tease??
    This is a really poor text conversation. You don't say anything exciting, you focus on barebone facts, and you come across as either really insecure or giddy.

    First, you text her twice in a row without letting her respond to you. You felt the need to do this because your first text was lame and you didn't expect an answer back.

    Second, you use "lol," "haha," or "" in basically every text you send. I used to do this a lot without noticing it. Like I said above, this either comes across as insecure, since you feel the need to use these to soften the impact of your message and seek acceptance, or it comes across like that annoying girl that feels the need to laugh at absolutely everything.

    You've probably waited long enough to send her another text, but I'd make sure the next text is entertaining. Don't use "lol," "haha," or a "." If she isn't going to smile at the next text, just save yourself the time and don't send it.

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    Default Re: little problem iso help

    in addition to the previous, your last text was a bit airy fairy - prior she was well responsive and even offering u the discount to which I would say is a small ioi, then you hand all the power to her (yes this is a small deal - you can check the sticked FAQ for why she hasn't replied) but next time just go direct saying "alright sick ill be in there at 12 tomorrow and you can hook me up(whatever slang / formal speech)" - the good thing is she's not gonna let you go in when she's not there, and If she does she's definitely not worth it

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    Default Re: little problem iso help

    This is just a platonic text conversation. There's no mystery or excitement. It's a by-the-book kind of thing. Except not our books lol. Focus on the emotion of the conversation, not the logic. Figure out what she's feeling. Yes she is responsive, but there's no Tension. Build up sexual tension.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: little problem iso help

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    This is just a platonic text conversation. There's no mystery or excitement. It's a by-the-book kind of thing. Except not our books lol. Focus on the emotion of the conversation, not the logic. Figure out what she's feeling. Yes she is responsive, but there's no Tension. Build up sexual tension.
    I had a good laugh over that one.


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