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Thread: Not sure if i should meet her one on one...

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    lamightymax is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Not sure if i should meet her one on one...

    so i got this HB8 number just under a week ago now, things seem to be going good we text most days. So she sent me a text last night asking if im out tonight, so i replied possibly. I guess its cool because it shows she wants to meet up, but the problem is she want me to me her in a club with all her friends that i don't know. To be honest i barely know her, so i don't want to go to the club and be this awkward guy on the side (AFC).

    Ideally i would like to meet one on one, so i could get to no her better and create some sort of status before i meet her friends.

    Ill probably b out with my friends, so i could try and get her to come to me or i could blow her off all together and arrange to meet up with her another time when its just her and me, what do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Not sure if i should meet her

    As you correctly pointed out, she seems clearly interested in you. So that's great.

    You have two choices:

    1) Accept her invitation, but tell her you will drop by for a drink, and then you have to go to this girl's birthday party, so you can't stay for long. Go to the club, see how it goes.... if you feel like it's too much for you, eject and use the excuse. If not, and she is all over you, game on. (The thing is, this is definitely a test. She wants to see how you do.)

    2) Tell her you have another party to go to that night - dinner birthday party for a girl friend, etc. Then set up a time to meet 1-on-1 ... coffee, drinks, etc. and then do your thing. It's high probability she will say yes to the 1-on-1 meet up, if your assessment is correct about her interest level.

    Good luck!
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    Default Re: Not sure if i should meet her one on one...

    pretty certain that "possibly " should have been a "it depends, do u have any girls for my mates? :P" you're most likely going to either end up as friends with benefits but who's to say you can't get to know her at the club and take things from there, it's possible

    btw you can say club x is bad, you like club y better and tell her to go there

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    Default Re: Not sure if i should meet her one on one...

    i didnt end up seeing her the other night, but im gonging talk to her tonight and suggest meeting up mid week.


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