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    Default Where to go from here with bar maid?

    Hello,

    so I met this girl who works as a barmaid. She's really nice and easy to talk to. Tho I've only talked to her in person while she's at work so we haven't had a long conversation. I asked her number but she said that she doesn't give it out so easily to everyone. She also said that I'm "chill"

    We've hooked up in FB and usually (not every time) chat there if she's online. She never initiates a conversation but if I start a convo then she always answers and talks freely. If I or she has to leave she only says "bye" if I say it. If i don't then she'll just leave.

    I asked her out to see a movie but somebody else already had "booked" it with her. So instead she told me that she'd like to see some other movie (not running in theatre) so I got it for her and she should be coming over to my place in about a week (maybe) to watch it together.

    What to read out from this? Is she just a friendly person? Maybe she doesn't want to be seen with me in public so that's why she was so OK with first "date" at my place? Where to go from here? I'm kind of new or actually rusty with this :P I also tend to over think and I know that's not good :P

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Where to go from here with bar maid?

    Progress: I got her number today, finally, without any effort :P Also first Kino - a hug.

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    Default Re: Where to go from here with bar maid?

    congrats hugs are pretty standard, you wanna get into more touchy feely stuff, even during the convo, no I don't mean feel her ass and up herskirt just simple touches on the shoulder / arms, there's alot of examples via the search button

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    Default Re: Where to go from here with bar maid?

    How would that work out if I basically let her know that I like her and then Freeze Out a little bit and check what she's going to do?

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    Default Re: Where to go from here with bar maid?

    you've explicitly told her that you like her?

    Kino is getting her comfortable on a physical not just verbal level
    and just wait 2, days from ur last contact with her

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    Default Re: Where to go from here with bar maid?

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    you've explicitly told her that you like her?

    Kino is getting her comfortable on a physical not just verbal level
    and just wait 2, days from ur last contact with her
    I haven't said to her "I like you" or something. I've just made some hints what I think about her and such.
    Anyways thanks for the tip, I'll wait a bit. Even tho I'll probably see her in the bar again today I'll play around a bit. Make her wonder.

    She is or playing a bit hard to get. One hug was all that I got from her yesterday. She didn't give me a second one when I left the spot. Funny, it almost seems like one hug first time, two hugs second time etc It's like with the phone number. She didn't give it to me the first time. Second time I didn't even have to ask. I just put my phone infront of her and she already knew what to do :P

    She's kind of dictating the game. This has to be turned around.


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