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    Default Dilemma with a Virgin HB8

    I'm 23, she is 19. We have been dating since this past December.
    She told me she was a virgin, and wanted to stick to being one. I like being in a relationship, but I expect sex in my relationships
    We have had a couple times where started making out, taking clothes off, and right before I can get inside her, she chickens out.
    We have been dating since this December, since then I have developed a connection with this HB8. I am really into her. Usually when someone tells you that they are a virgin, you usually stop right after the first date. I have been on multiple dates with her.
    After sometime I told her that as a man I have needs, that if she can not satisfy them, then I have to leave. I broke up, and were back together half a week later.
    One week later she gave me an ultimatum which put it as "lefty" (my left hand) or Britney. Meaning be in a relationship with her, but my left hand will be doing obviously you know what, or be friends and I go and sleep with someone else.
    In the back of my mind something told me to choose lefty, but I chose Britney. Thats when she revealed to me, that after some time she may have not slept with me but done some other things.
    Advice I have been given thus far, 1. You do not want to be some girls first in bed. 2. Do not pursue just move on
    Am I being an AFC with one-itis?
    Should I continue to pursue?
    Is there anyway to get what I want out of this relationship, really into this one?

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    Default Re: Dilemma with a Virgin HB8

    This is when ethics come into play, man. They way I look at it, you should never game virgins...not unless you're expecting a LTR. I'm guessing since you're really into this one, you've considered it.

    If you just want sex, drop it for ethical reasons. LTR - stick it out without pressuring her.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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