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Thread: Online Dating: Does it Work?

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    Default Online Dating: Does it Work?

    Hi guys, I am thinking of getting into online dating to extend my game. But I cannot figure out why HB's would subscribe to these sites, given the stigma that goes a long with it; and this is especially peculiar when it is so much easier for them to find someone in the physical world. So this is my enigma: why would HB's go online dating unless they just want the attention? Also, how many people here have positive experiences with online dating?

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    Default Re: Online Dating: Does it Work?

    I'm a serial online dater, and I have been for years. It's been extremely effective for me. 4 out of my 5 serious girlfriends over the years I met online - match, okcupid,, facebook, linkedin, asmallworld - have all been productive sites to find HBs.
    So let me explain online dating and gaming.
    First, the reason there are HBs there is precisely because they are tired of the bar game and being hit on by every single guy and have not been able to find someone. Once a girl has actually taken the step to sign up and pay for a membership, that means she is looking. Look, just like in real life, 90% of women (and men) are not in the HB category. So, they are not super common online either. But it's a numbers / waiting game. Evenutally you find a few. Also, online dating is much better for guys than woman. why? Because again, if a woman is on the site, that is high probability she wants a boyfriend - so there's a desperate element to online dating for them. But if a guy is on a dating site... it's probably 50/50 that he actually wants a girlfriend. I think at this point, i have gotten laid more from women i met online that offline. I also have mad facebook game because i use it as a marketing tool (see my previous post on facebook game). You see my profile pic on this forum. That girl, I met on match... she was a published international model.
    let me know if you have any questions.... best thing to do is just try it. Okcupid is free. so is plentyoffish, so try those. good practice anyway. also, tons of my guy friends in new york have found HBs on dating sites.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 01-20-2013 at 05:38 PM.
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    Default Re: Online Dating: Does it Work?

    I have to agree with blaze boy on all his points. To me it's mainly a numbers game as I just send out a shit ton of the same opening line. Then I kind of weed them out. If I see a HB that really interests me, I read her profile and come up with something unique to open with.

    I think the main thig is that you know 100% of these girls are single and looking, so it does help

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    Default Re: Online Dating: Does it Work?

    100% in agreement with blazeboy and Mr West.

    I work away from home A LOT (hence the name) because of work. In fact my work is exciting and interesting enough to be a strong dhv which I use to the max, but the rub is my office is in a bad part of town to meet new girls and my wingmen at home are... well... not great! Haha! So I turned to internet dating to increase my chances of meeting girls whilst I'm on home turf.

    To be honest, it took be quite a while to get the technique down and I nearly dropped it completely a number of times. Online game is a little different than in personal because what you say is so much more important because there is no body language here. Anyway, I stuck to it and now I'm getting 2 or 3 dates a week. I had three this weekend with girls I started talking to on POF! And the best bit is, I do most of my POF messaging whilst I'm taking a dump at work, so I'm not even wasting any time doing it!

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    Default Re: Online Dating: Does it Work?

    Lmao, while taking a dump bro? You sure are maximizing your time.

    But ya I'm in a shitty part if town and my friends sucks as wings. I work and go to school full time so online helps a good deal

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    Default Re: Online Dating: Does it Work?

    I agree with international. I get my best text game and online gaming done on the toilet. Just something about taking a dump that is conducive to solving the world's problems, you know?
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    Default Re: Online Dating: Does it Work?

    Quote Originally Posted by blazeboy View Post
    I agree with international. I get my best text game and online gaming done on the toilet. Just something about taking a dump that is conducive to solving the world's problems, you know?
    I'm going to try this out and see how effective it is!

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    Default Re: Online Dating: Does it Work?

    I have used eHarmony for 2 years now. I only got a few fussy stupid spinsters from it. There are a few young and hot ones but they are too hard to get. I have started learning PUA stuff. Although I am a newbie I have got a few numbers and a few dates in only 2 weeks! Statistically it works better for me.

    My problem with PUA is that it takes too much time and I get rejected N times until I get a number whereas in online dating if I don't get a response it's no big deal!

    How do you do your game online so that you have such a high success rate? Are you trying to be cocky & flirty when you write online too?


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