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Thread: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

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    Default I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    This girl that i've been acquainted with for a little over a year (HB7) has just recently started to talk to me a lot. She showed up to one of my parties the weekend before last, and seemed really interested in me, and offered her number.

    We texted throughout the week a little, and I attempted to get her out and/or over to my house last Friday, to no avail.

    She showed up at one of my friend's parties on Saturday, for a total of 45 minutes, in which i may have said 4 words to her. I was admittedly pretty drunk, and i was talking to a lot of old friends i haven't seen in awhile. I talked to her when she first showed up, and right before she left she found me to tell me goodbye. Regardless, this weekend was a bust as far as she is concerned.

    Anyway, She text me tonight, and It went like this.

    Her: I'm loonnneelllyyyy

    Me: I'm just going to assume that's a safer way of saying you're dying to see me.

    Her: Lol, whatever seems to float your boat.

    Me: You don't have to hide it, I understand.

    Her: Lol, What makes you think that is what i was trying to say?

    Me: cause you didn't say no when i called you on it. You can't get past me So, tell ya what. Since you're so lonely, I'm going to keep you company this weekend when i come back into town.

    Her: Oh yeah, just like this past weekend, right? Lol.

    ^ (referring to when i barely talked to her at the party)^

    Me: well, that depends if you can keep me interested, so be sure to bring your A-game.

    (no text back)


    Comments? Criticism? I think i'm slowly getting the hang of all aspects of Gaming, and i'm improving little by little.

    Anyway, all comments are welcome! thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    good work don't let her put you off, your frame was kept well

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    Default Re: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    Thanks, hyp. I'll see where this goes through out the week, and into the weekend, and if all goes well, I might have reason to post my first field report!

    Any other comments and criticism is welcome as well.

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    Default Re: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    Seems fine, just control the conversation like you already are.

    I found that text game helped me improve my regular interactions. I "kind of" have the basis to what make girls laugh and induces interest from so much textin (like 1000+ in the past month).

    So good job! do your thing!
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    Default Re: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    I found that text game helped me improve my regular interactions.
    i resonate with this, for me combining it with alpha, it helped my frame control 20000%

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    Default Re: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    Looks good. I haven't seen your previous examples, but if this is better than what you had, then give yourself a pat on the back.

    My analysis

    Her: I'm loonnneelllyyyy

    (The fact that she texted you first is a good sign. She has vested interest in you.)

    Me: I'm just going to assume that's a safer way of saying you're dying to see me.

    Her: Lol, whatever seems to float your boat.

    (A passive uninteresting way of deflecting your jab without admitting or denying it.)

    Me: You don't have to hide it, I understand.

    Her: Lol, What makes you think that is what i was trying to say?

    (She trying to peel you and pick your mind).

    Me: cause you didn't say no when i called you on it. You can't get past me So, tell ya what. Since you're so lonely, I'm going to keep you company this weekend when i come back into town.

    (You negged her here.)

    Her: Oh yeah, just like this past weekend, right? Lol.

    (Ouch. Caught you. Her way of disqualifying you.)

    Me: well, that depends if you can keep me interested, so be sure to bring your A-game.

    (Stood your ground, but I think she broken her hand on your 6-pack. Too much alpha shield might've discouraged her. Sometimes this could be bad especially if she's average looking, has low self-esteem or insecurity issues. She might think you might be too good for her. So gauge accordingly with some pull so you don't knock her out of the ring lol.)

    This is a solid frame to maintain if she is a HB that alot of guys are chasing after and she knows she is hot. Not sure how high this girl ranks up there in the looks department, but based on her text, I'd say ordinary. Nice girl, doesn't have that feisty/spunk. She came to you first for attention, so you may not have needed to work too hard.

    I like to think of the text game as a soft style martial like tai chi or aikido where you go with the flow and don't resist. It's passive active. You deflect and you redirect. The end result, you create ripples in the stream...OR attraction in her. Maybe stick more humor in like:

    Her: Lol, whatever seems to float your boat.
    Me: Yea I got boat. I got a 2-man kayak. This weekend I'm planning to paddle over Niagara Falls, sail down the Amazon river, dodge pirahna, find the lost city of gold. Wanna be my co-pilot?

    This way you didn't have to neg her by saying "She is so lonely"

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    Default Re: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    this is a question going out to someone who knows :P #hijack-elaboration

    Her: I'm loonnneelllyyyy
    Me: I'm just going to assume that's a safer way of saying you're dying to see me.
    Her: Lol, whatever seems to float your boat.
    Me: You don't have to hide it, I understand.
    Her: Lol, What makes you think that is what i was trying to say?


    i just don't get it, in pu terms they try to act all innocent in the beginning and then when you reply to that with a sexual statement or accuse them of hititng on you they always try and destroy your frame or friend zone you right there and then? like wtf and this isn't the only women that's doing it

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    Default Re: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    I'll chime in & say that I see her comment about "..last weekend" was more of a sh!t test than anything.

    The original response wasn't bad, but sometimes it's more effective to play along with her...

    Something like: "Ohhh, touche'! Nice one Sassy-Pants!! " may have made her laugh & kept her responding.

    Overall though, your text game was pretty solid. Just try to keep it light & fun as much as possible & don't get stuck on a particular subject for too long.

    Keep introducing new bantering & teasing topics every few texts to keep her attention & keep the interaction from getting stale.


    But hang in there!!
    You're actually off to a really good start.


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    Default Re: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    Thanks for the input, guys.

    As far as I.M.Mortal's comment about her looks, she is a solid 7. But she also has soooooo many guys drooling over her that she has the ego of a 10. Like, taking a scroll down my facebook feed, i see at least 3 guys posting on her wall saying stuff like:
    "you're sooooo beautiful!"
    "your gorgeous, but you don't text me anymore. What happened? "
    "Omg you're so pretty. You should HMU sometime. "

    Those were literally, word for word 3 posts that guys have put on her wall.

    Looks like my competition isn't that strong with this one.

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    Default Re: I think im getting better at texting! opinions?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    "Ohhh, touche'! Nice one Sassy-Pants!! "
    I use sassy pants soooo much now, its my go to remark when I get in trouble... never fails to get smile. I also use little missy, bubba and pumpkin a fair amount.

    As for the texting I like the control and playful vibe you've created but the last text was a little off.

    It is a definitely a Sh1t Test, and you did well not to cave to her and tell her she'd get all your attention etc.

    I agree with T-Mal's response as you've already done a fair bit of pushing so you need to throw in a small pull to keep her interested.


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