Re: The 3 month hump
I agree with everything edgemaster said. I'll add my two cents. I'm probably older than you. I've dated a ton, but I have had 5 serious relationships in my life. And they all lasted around two years before it went stale, etc. So your 3 months, is my two years. I read a bunch of studies that were done on relationships, and they actually pinpiont two years as being the number where you feel a need to decide whether your partner is right or now. I read these articles a long time ago, so I forget the exact scientific reasons for these. But my view is, there is no magic to any of these numbers. 3 months or two years. I think you don't think about the time, and think mroe about how you are feeling. And if you really like the girl and you are feeling good about it, make sure you take edge's advice. If you're not feeling it, you shouldn't fight it. Just move on. But don't overthink the numbers... think about how you feel.
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