Re: Flaking... How to respond (if at all) and how to avoid
There is a lot to tell. First is that if you want to decrease flaking then make sure your game is tight within the first 20 min of talking before you get the phone number and separate. But that only decreases, not eliminates.
Also if you want some heavy duty critiquing then we need to know a bit more about the interactions you have had with her (and others) thus far.
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