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Thread: For all you people with oneitis! Read!

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    Default For all you people with oneitis! Read!

    Alright, so some of you might have read my thread, i had the worst oneitis ever, i thought she was my world, my everything, and i could die for her, she was the one, blah blah blah and the list goes on. It was pretty hard to get over her.

    So how do you get rid of oneitis?

    Firstly know that theres isnt a magic cure, there is only a process, that you can either speed up or slow down.

    Secondly you can do this by...

    REALISING AND ANALYISING REALISTICLY

    Because the reality of it is, if she treats you with disrespect then, she shouldnt warrant any respect from you!

    But you may think, well its hard to get over, i cant find anyone perfect, shes my only one!

    You need to snap out of that, this is your part of the illogical brain functioning and it becomes that voice inside your head, that you start to believe it.

    Remember and i want you to repeat these words: IT ISNT LOGICAL, ITS THAT VOICE TRYING TO MAKE ME A STRONGER PERSON, SO WHEN I DO FIND THE "ONE" I KNOW HOW TRUE LOVE IS BUT I WONT BE AFFRAID TO WALK AWAY AND I WONT PUT UP WITH HER **** EITHER! BUT IF I LET IT TAKE OVER ME AND LISTEN TO IT, I WILL BE THINKING UNREALISTICLY.

    So maybe you're still thinking she's your one, I thought that too, i thought everything would be meaningless without her, but let me vouch for you here guys, after 6 months i met a girl who was so better then my oneitis that i never had to feel like crap!

    You see you need a oneitis, strangely enough you do! This is what drives your masculinity, its life telling you to be a stronger person, so dont just sit there moping about, embrace your oneitis, you know she treated you like crap, she didnt even listen to you, why should you let her give you this horrible disease?

    You be the better MAN and you show her that she's not effecting you, you show her it by finding another girl, but in the process you've learnt from your mistakes, that mistake being HER!

    Now i know there is alot of oneitis types, but this is the general one and im telling you even if you met the girl, or shes your friend, it isnt worth the battle of trying to win her over, because when your in oneitis mode, you come off as the everyday ordinary guy who will do anything for her and put up with her **** and thus you screw up the entire relationship making it worse.

    Women are attracted to strong, challenging, male leaders, not someone who will scrub there back and then pay them for doing it! (i knew a guy who did that once)

    You know women get oneitis too, but they get over it better, because they deal with there emotions everyday, that they master there emotions. See it's harder for guys to master there emotions because,we dont use it as much as women do.

    So now you realised its illogical, heres some short advice.

    Go out and socialise, you will meet better people and just like me you will think, what did i ever see in that girl.
    Now heres the exciting news, everytime you go out and meet new women, 40% of the time you will meet another girl who is BETTER then your oneitis.
    5% when you go out meeting new people, you become stronger each time, so 5% stronger then you are!

    When you have oneitis this is when you know you cant win the battle of winning her over, you cant win a battle that makes you feel weak in your knees and having your heart on your sleeve.

    Now im all for love, thats my final stage in finding in a girl, but i have standards, the kind of ones that i want in a woman and the kind of standards, i do not want in a woman, so making sure you have standards, is a foulproof way to skip a oneitis disease and sometimes they come in under the radar, but learn from the pain, it will make you a stronger man and it will make you have a STRONGER GAME.

    Now by all means for peace of mind, go ask her out, but remember the pain will follow through and this is when you have to be ready for it. The pain period is what seperates the men from the boys, either way you will overcome and be STRONGER.

    Look in the mirror and smile at yourself and know that person staring back at you deserves to be respected.

    If I can live without the girl you have fallen for, and 99.99999999999999999 999999999999999% of the world can, Im sure shes not so perfect.

    Now i know im new to this forums, but i had studied PUA for a long time (; so yes, my ideas are awsome.

    Hope this helped you PUAs out! Everytime i think about her, i read this aswell, cuz im just so motivational. stay strong my brothers, you are worth much more than a fucked up feeling taking over your actions and time. Stay strong. Better girls are always out there. TRUST ME.
    Life is too short. Go ahead. Live it up. And enjoy the ride before its over(;

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    Default Re: For all you people with oneitis! Read!

    Good post bro. Thanks for sharing. Lots of good stuff.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: For all you people with oneitis! Read!

    thanks, no problem bro, any time. (;
    Life is too short. Go ahead. Live it up. And enjoy the ride before its over(;

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    Default Re: For all you people with oneitis! Read!

    Good post bro. I am suffering from oneitis and your post definitely helped a lot.
    There's this girl I had a huge crush on when I was in 6th grade and now 10 years later, out of nowhere she comes back into my life. Making me think its all part of a universal plan and that we're meant to be together.
    Which isn't true when you logically think about it.

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    Default Re: For all you people with oneitis! Read!

    omg. I know how you feel. Try and keep distant from her. Keep the Mindset of you guys will never be. trust me. think about the painful times you had together instead of the good times that make u like her. Think about those times where she might have been a bitch, about how ur life went normal WITHOUT her. don't you want a normal life without her bs? ur a PUA bro. u just need time away from her. time as in forever lol.
    Life is too short. Go ahead. Live it up. And enjoy the ride before its over(;

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    Default Re: For all you people with oneitis! Read!

    haszan man really needed advice like this. like u i hav just newly created this id but i started reading on pua 2 years ago. and 2 years ago to get this one girl in college. in college hugely rejected, humiliated by her and even after finishing of college, i kept on stalking her facebook despite of all the humiliation. I know it was really fool of me n the best part even after getting rejection in fb frend request i still didn't learned and got hurt really bad. Actually it happened yesterday. everyday i wake up the first thing i see is her face nothing else, it has gotten so worse that i dont even like to talk to my family just want to fantasize about her!!!

    But hey man no more, no F##king more!! Now it's over and even she comes and begs for it, there's not a chance in hell. I can relate to u and just needed sum1 that has gone through the same pain as me and tell me these words and i found u. Thanks man u dont know but u r saving lives!!!

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    Default Re: For all you people with oneitis! Read!

    Good advice, haszan1172. It's a good reminder not to put all our eggs in basket when it comes to both women and life, or as Pepe Le Pew once said: There are plenty of fish in the sea.

    In every relationship, you shouldn't have to compromise your dignity or self-respect.


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