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    Default Re: Competing With Jerks and Bad Boys!

    I think you have a good idea about it. I know it's quite a bit of responses, but if you look back at my responses I mention my opinion on control. About how she doesn't want to feel like you're always in control and wants to know she has that affect to make you lose your cool. Just a touch of some things that I've been learning and you can incorporate it if you feel you can benefit from it.
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    Default Re: Competing With Jerks and Bad Boys!

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I think you have a good idea about it. I know it's quite a bit of responses, but if you look back at my responses I mention my opinion on control. About how she doesn't want to feel like you're always in control and wants to know she has that affect to make you lose your cool. Just a touch of some things that I've been learning and you can incorporate it if you feel you can benefit from it.
    This thread is interesting!

    That is quite a coincidence today as I was talking to a friend of mine who has a girlfriend now and he told me today that at times he says no to her just for the sake of saying no. He told me that he does this intentionally so she does not feel in control because she can not predict his behaviour. He is after a divorce where he practically was giving everything to his ex-wife and after this experience he said that he will never got back to being predictable. The reason why his wife left him, as he found out later on, was that he was nice, but 100% boring. He told me that at other times when his current girlfriend thinks he will say no to something he say yes. T

    He is not at all into PUA, but learned from experience with his ex-wife.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KingDaVinci View Post
    Sorry it took me this long to respond, Ive been really busy with my company lately which is a good thing actually. It's kind of hard to answer these questions because some of these girls I got into short term relationships that last a few months and some I just date for a month or two with no commitment.

    How often do I argue with these women?? It depends, usually things start out great, I keep dialing up her attraction, she seems to be getting more and more into me, but then suddenly things fizzle which usually happens right around the time they start hearing from their abusive exes. In that time, with most of them , we argue once every couple weeks. Would it help if we did argue more??

    What is the most romantic things Ive said to them?? I almost never say romantic sh1t to them so I honestly can't think of an answer. I rarely compliment them but when I do, they seem to really appreciate it and don't take it for granted. I don't do anything romantic until after a few months when she's earned it and I do things that are very spontaneous, original, and not wussy so it doesn't end it pushing her away.
    Not sure if there is a set number on how much you should argue. But you definitely want to pick your battles. Not everything is worth getting into. I'd say at least once a month there should be a disagreement. That sounds like a good number.

    Think of it like this...we are naturally drawn to conflict. Conflicts need to be fixed. It's mentally stimulating to try and fix a problem. If there are no conflicts then ONE of you will create one. Usually it's her lol. Women can come up with some bizarre things to argue about if you haven't argued for awhile. And if you let her choose the conflict (Ex: Why can't you be more romantic?) then it's not really in your control. And you risk falling into the frame and explaining yourself. Although it's a good sign that she has a conflict she wants to fix with you. It means she cares.

    But it's a little more in your territory when you pick the conflict (Ex: Why would you say something like that to me?). Although if done too much you will lose power because you are always complaining and beating her down. You still have to make her feel like she's in heaven when you treat her good. That's the roller coaster.

    Most of the time though it's best to walk away when arguments are minor or you feel yourself getting frustrated and may lose it. But doing that all the time will not create that connection and rapport because you aren't communicating. Just avoiding. She will easily walk away from someone who walks away from her constantly. So get angry and once in a while actually YELL. Lose control a little, which lets her know she actually as an affect on you. That's what she wants. Investment begets investment.....usual ly lol.
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