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    clinkypuaman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need Help BIG TIME!!

    okay so im new to the forums but looks good so far, anyway i was at a party roughly 2 years ago with a girl whom i went to school with when we were reall young like toddlers. I have always had a thing for her friend and while i was at this party she introduced me to this friend and i said that i did not remember her from when we were younger ( i was realllyy drunk and stupid at that time)..anyways i added her to facebook the next day and i was going to get around to talking to her but i always pussied out....

    so now its been like 2 years since i added her and i just wanna message her and get to know her but i have no idea what opener to use so here is where i need some help?

    how would you open something like this i was going to say Hey your XXXXs friend right? and continue on from there but that seems pretty basic i wanted something unique but not too random? Opinions??? and i do really wanna talk to her i dont wanna just leave it..

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    Default Re: Need Help BIG TIME!!

    Hey your XXXXs friend right?
    no that's lame, extremely lame, there's a whole openers section for this, more so there's a search button that you can use to find the exact same question that's been asked a thousand times

    a simple "JESS!" works and proceed

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    Default Re: Need Help BIG TIME!!

    If you want something more natural then start liking her FB posts. After a week then start responding to some of her posts. After another week then find a post of hers that gives you a reason to send her a private message. It takes longer, but it's much more natural in growth vs coming out of nowhere with a "hey your xxx's friend right?" Everyone says that. She'll feel it's more genuine if she perceives it as a growing interest on your part.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    clinkypuaman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help BIG TIME!!

    damn i would prefer if i could do it through private message though , my girlfriend is on my facebook..kind of just wanted to message her if anything went south cause were kinda rocky and start off as friends?

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    Default Re: Need Help BIG TIME!!

    i disagree batman, if you pm her with her name, it's genuine interest and you don't have to "waste" (i use that loosely) time, ultimately you can banter a bit and then set up a meet after not long, i've done it successfully and had a few flakes - not many though


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