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Thread: Used Guide, shit tested, Failed.

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    Default Used Guide, shit tested, Failed.

    Short and Sweet.

    Met a hot girl yesterday, Texted her. Followed a text game guide. Said the following.

    Me: What should I wear?
    Girl: Wear for what?
    Me; For our first date
    Girl: (gives me no reply for 5 hours)

    What do I do? Any damage control? Or do I just ignore her.

    Any help/advice is greatly appreciated

    Thank you!

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    Default Re: Used Guide, shit tested, Failed.

    I'm new here, but from what i learned so far I think you came on too strong.

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    Default Re: Used Guide, shit tested, Failed.

    You screwed up on this one. You committed one of the texting mistakes. You generated no attraction no connection and asked her out.

    From Bill Preston:

    Mistake #5: Going for the Meet-up without
    Sparking Emotion

    Here is another hard, cold fact. If you ask a
    woman to hang out, without first sparking and
    emotion.. she will almost always turn you down.

    Why?

    Because all of the positive emotions she felt when
    she was with you has dwindled.

    And the thought of getting dressed up, and going
    to meet a guy she barely knows (and the potential
    you'll turn out to be a creep or just awkward) is
    not worth the effort.

    Logically she can easily talk herself out of it.

    Which is why you MUST engage her on an emotional
    level first.

    It is MUCH easier to get a "yes" out of a woman
    once you've sparked a positive emotion.

    The two best ways to do this are with flirting or
    humor.

    Here's an important concept: She is NOT going to
    remember all your good qualities. So it's your
    JOB to remind her.

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    Default Re: Used Guide, sh1t tested, Failed.

    Quote Originally Posted by GoEasy View Post
    Short and Sweet.

    Met a hot girl yesterday, Texted her. Followed a text game guide. Said the following.

    Me: What should I wear?
    Girl: Wear for what?
    Me; For our first date
    Girl: (gives me no reply for 5 hours)

    What do I do? Any damage control? Or do I just ignore her.

    Any help/advice is greatly appreciated

    Thank you!
    How are you buddy. Women get scared if you tell them you are going to meet up on a date. It sounds like you want to get in a relationship with them. With texts you can always use sense of humor and bothering them or being playfull, if The Vibe is correct and she is playfull with you she will reply all your humor messages. for example:

    Me: What should I wear?
    Girl: Wear for what?
    Me; We are going to Starbucks and you are going to buy me coffee
    Girl: jajaja I am not going to buy you anything.


    What I would do is be straight up to her and ask her why she hasn't replied.

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    Default Re: Used Guide, sh1t tested, Failed.

    Quote Originally Posted by GoEasy View Post
    Short and Sweet.

    Met a hot girl yesterday, Texted her. Followed a text game guide. Said the following.

    Me: What should I wear?
    Girl: Wear for what?
    Me; For our first date
    Girl: (gives me no reply for 5 hours)

    What do I do? Any damage control? Or do I just ignore her.

    Any help/advice is greatly appreciated

    Thank you!
    There is always damage control IMO. You just need to send a recovery text and stay unaffected by the outcome. Don't show that you are needy about not getting a reply. Just move on and continue your approach in a non-needy attitude completely unhindered by the fallout.

    The key thing is you got her talking and that is a big first step since as we can see she already wants to talk. Just mix it up next time and try to challenge her.


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