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    Default Breaking girls out of auto-response

    Obviously a great opener should break a girl out of auto response and move past one line answers. But what if it doesn't?

    Let's say you get a response to an opener, but they don't hook on the opener, where do you go from there?
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    Default Re: Breaking girls out of auto-response

    I just got back into online game and have this same issue. One thing I've found is try to keep the convo going. One girl I eventually got to open up a little bit through teasing her. Call them a bratty little sister/dork/nerd and accuse them of hitting on you. It tends to work, but you need an endgame to get the number.

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    Default Re: Breaking girls out of auto-response

    Quote Originally Posted by monoposto View Post
    I just got back into online game and have this same issue. One thing I've found is try to keep the convo going. One girl I eventually got to open up a little bit through teasing her. Call them a bratty little sister/dork/nerd and accuse them of hitting on you. It tends to work, but you need an endgame to get the number.
    One piece of advice I can give is don't try to jump into role playing after the opener if they aren't responding. I've killed several conversations trying to hook the girl after the opener by trying to role play.

    You may be able to role play if you transition really well, and make it seem natural, I'll have to test some more.
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    Default Re: Breaking girls out of auto-response

    Seriously guys, need some help. How do I break girls out of one line responses. This is especially prevalent with 8s and higher.
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    Default Re: Breaking girls out of auto-response

    Clearly there is something wrong with your opener. Can you give some examples of the openers that you are using?

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    Default Re: Breaking girls out of auto-response

    Ok, so with this one girl I've been talking to I opened with just a general opinion on her profile:

    Well giving into peer pressure is usually a terrible thing, but luckily for you this time it's paid off! What can I say, I'm sort of a big deal

    So anyways, I typically stay clear of commenting on a girl's appearance online, since it really is quite trite and lame, but I have to say that I love your fashion sense! It's so bright and fun. I particularly love the dress you're wearing in the first picture. Perfect dress for the beach! Too bad you don't seem to know where the camera is.

    I am curious though, how is baseball "a waste of a sport"? I mean, you might not like it, but what is it wasting? What would take it's place if it wasn't there?

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    She's like an 8.5-9 and she's been responding really well to negs and teases, but she won't respond with anything more than two or three lines at the most. In addition, her profile is fairly sparse, making conversation difficult to say the least.

    But I'm having this problem with every opener I use, especially with better looking women. Some generic openers I've used:

    "You've got two tickets for a plane leaving in the morning. Where is that plane going? Why is that your destination of choice? Who are you taking with you? How long will you be gone?"

    "Are you an adventurous type of girl? For instance, if you had the opportunity to swim with sharks would you jump in the water or stay in the boat?" (this one is admittedly not great for getting longer answers, but if I get a response how do I move into a longer reply?)

    I try to tailor a lot of my messages to the girls profile and my best results have been when I can really connect. But I just can't seem to break some girls out of the one or two line responses.
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    Default Re: Breaking girls out of auto-response

    Sorry, from our initial post I didn't pick up that this was online, not my area of expertise.

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    Default Re: Breaking girls out of auto-response

    Dammit Suave, and I love reading your posts too.
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    Default Weird, but Bold

    I would have to say that your openers appear to be extremely weird. It almost seems like you have packed a game of 20 Questions into a simple little hello. It might be overwhelming them. However, I like them because they are sudden and incredibly different from the usual. Openers like those would have the affect of catching a woman's attention. As for after that, I'm not entirely certain.

    I would have to say when it comes to openers, I usually like short, sweet, and witty For example, I managed to initiate a conversation with a woman sitting by herself studying and eating lunch by walking over and going "Hey, I thought you could use a study break, so I came on over". It's almost like improvisation acting: you have to go along with what you know will hit the crowd the best.
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    Default Re: Breaking girls out of auto-response

    How do I see this shit with others' messages but not my own?!?

    Anyways, my take on your opener seems like you are supplicating (I love your fashion sense) and by just that and then talking about other stuff. You also go into your talk about baseball...

    I try to keep my first message short and simple. So I would say more with less, so to speak.


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