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    Default Am I being played?

    Hey guys,

    So I have met this girl just over a month ago. We met in the library 2 weeks before exams,while studying. we then studied together for 6-8 nights after that, until our exams. she then went back home to her country.

    She returned in time for the second semester of school (first week Jan). We met 2 weeks into the new semester of school, where we went for lunch twice that week. we talked and laughed around. it was a good time. We have each other on Facebook and each others numbers. but she very rarely texts me first and when shes does, the conversation has a very hard time going past whats up, not munch, you.

    In person it is much different with lots of talking, laughing, joking and teasing. she has told me many personal stories, good oness and bad ones too with her family.

    I saw her at school last week and asked her to go to a movie, she said yes and we went to see a horor movie, where things went well. we cuddeled and held hands in the theatre. I then drove her home. she went to leave the car with nothing more than a bye, i called her out and said she should give me a hug, she returned and hugged me.

    I texted her the next night, where she was not very responsive, with very closed ended answers. no room for conversation.

    She did not text me for the next 2 days. then saturday i texted her and spoke to her,
    also not very conversation friendly but i made the effort to keep things going
    and we ended up making plans to go skating. We skated then went for dinner and drinks, where we got fairly drunk. Later after hanging out for a while and talking, I drove her home where she gave me a big hug and said to text her when i get home. I texted ehr when i got home, and recived no reply.

    It is now the night after,a dn i am yet to recive a tank you for last night, hello, or anything what so ever.

    I know she is free today and also, she has been online on Facebook, updating statuses and commenting all day.



    Am I being too attached, or do you guys also sense something fishy?

    Because we have fun together but then makes no effort to converse with me.

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    Default Re: Am I being played?

    Nothing is fishy. It sounds like you've been friendzoned.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Am I being played?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Nothing is fishy. It sounds like you've been friendzoned.
    Agreed, instead of a hug, it should have been a kiss. Seems like she was interested at first but you were your own enemy and killed your game yourself. Also, don't send her anything for a couple weeks. You're sounding a little needy for her attention. The balls in her court, she knows that...

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    Default Re: Am I being played?

    I wouldn't consider your relationship at the level where you would think you've been played. I reserve that label for intimate relationships where you have invested lots of emotion. In your case it never even kiss closed (after how long?). You risk ending up an AFC, don't! You have two options: 1) make one more date and kiss close; 2) move on.
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Am I being played?

    Guys, I want to start of by thanking you for the prompt responses. great group of people over here.

    She actually ended up messaging me right after i posted this, she told me that she was really F***d up from last night and she was throwing up/passing out in the washroom for an hour.

    we texted briefly, until once again she sent a closed ended reply. I'm going to keep my distance for a bit until she approaches and I see a couple more OIO's before i try to get the second date. I will definitely go for the kiss close next time.


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