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    Default Getting replies to message online

    Testing various messages at an online dating site. Sent out this message:

    Hi,

    I'm sure you get so many messages that it's hard for you to reply to everyone. Well, here's one more message letting you know all the reasons we should meet...

    Nope, I don't have lots of reasons. Sorry!

    I do have one. I like being seen in the company of attractive women. I'm sure you know a few and could introduce me

    Sincerely,

    E.

    P.S. I'm kidding. You're very attractive!

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    I'll follow up if this message works
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Getting Replies

    You sound needy and it sounds canned.

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    Default Re: Getting Replies

    Quote Originally Posted by monoposto View Post
    You sound needy and it sounds canned.
    Your reply is vague. Please explain your remark so that I can learn. Better yet, tweek it so that it sounds better.

    I've learned from this online thing that most women at the site are very shallow and superficial. I used the negging to irk their ego tripping Mindset.

    I have 3 women I date regularly and am not needy. So please tell me what aspect of my post indicates a needy person?
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Getting Replies

    Too elaborate more for you....

    Quote Originally Posted by EMSaenz View Post
    I'm sure you get so many messages that it's hard for you to reply to everyone. Well, here's one more message letting you know all the reasons we should meet...
    The, "well here's one more message" sounds lame, you are lumping yourself in with the other lame messages. Remember you are the exception to the rule....

    Quote Originally Posted by EMSaenz View Post
    Nope, I don't have lots of reasons. Sorry!

    I do have one. I like being seen in the company of attractive women. I'm sure you know a few and could introduce me


    P.S. I'm kidding. You're very attractive
    Oh, excuse me you're one of the few guys that actually DOES like hanging out with hot women? I love the ugly fat ones myself.... [/sarcasm]

    Plus, telling her she's attractive is bullsh1t, I don't do this until I've either made out with them or farked them and that's if they are lucky. IF she's hot she knows it, don't be one of those guys that is always telling her that sh1t.

    Second, you don't have lots of reasons to message her?? So why should she message you back? I wouldn't even try to change or modify the message, just dump it all together and start over.

    I'm no guru, i'm definitely improving myself and im new to the site, so this is just my .02 cents

    EDIT: be creative, make fun of her in a light hearted way....

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    Default Re: Getting Replies

    Thanks, I see your points and agree. It helps to get other's suggestions. I am more of a face to face guy. This online stuff is new to me and the women are way harder to get to respond. Mainly, because I'm new at it. I'm trying my hand at it out of boredom.
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Getting Replies

    Most of the best online guys here all agree that you should never start with "Hi," "Hey," "Whatsup," etc. Every message a girl gets starts with that. Remember, a PUA is the exception to the rule.

    Instead start with a statement:

    "So I saw that you're great at X..."
    "You have X"

    Or, start right off with a role-playing game:

    "Given the chance would you swim with sharks?"
    "You have a ticket on a plane leaving in the morning, where is that plane going and why?"

    Pick something out in their profile that you can relate with and make a statement about that. Never start with something about their physical appearance, and if you do, disqualify instantly after that.

    Remember, the exception to the rule.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Getting Replies

    Duke,

    Great suggestions!

    I just used this one on a woman that rejected me based on my photos "lack of sparkle" in my eyes!

    My response:

    Subject: Goo Goo Eyes

    I photoshopped my pix to add some sparkle into my eyes. I have to remember to think "Shallow" to attract women in here.

    She replied: Touche, well done! I didn't mean to sound so shallow and I didn't read your profile until now. You sound like a very passionate man. Tell me more about yourself.

    I phone closed and asked her out for coffee this coming Wednesday and she agreed to meet
    Carpe diem!


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