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    airky is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Nearly there i think, closing the deal

    so iv been messaging this girl since yesterday afternoon. i feel like i have had a good start and was planning on asker her out/for her number in the next couple of messages but im not sure if it quite right just yet.

    anyone got some advise for me here ?

    airkyd1/27/2013 8:51:48 PM
    wake up really early, have my coco pop, watch some tom and jerry on boomberang ........ realize im not 10 anymore, get in the shower, listen to the chill out lounge with just a towel on, watch all the trash on Sunday tv while im falling asleep on my sofa perfect.

    chilledpill1/27/2013 8:54:32 PM
    Haha, yeah something like that. Or a day trip somewhere new. what would your ideal sunday be?

    Yeah i'm a PT, I don't mind Sunday work it was only one session.

    airkyd1/27/2013 9:16:44 PM
    you must be like super strict on your diet and exercise and stuff, huh?

    so how do you occupy your time when your not working ? what do you enjoy doing ?

    chilledpill1/27/2013 9:24:29 PM
    Yes I am pretty strict with my diet and lifestyle. I enjoy feeling good and have a lot I still need to change body-wise so have to be strict.

    I like to see friends, hang out, watch films, read/research, the usual stuff! How about yourself? Got any hobbies?

    airkyd1/27/2013 9:33:53 PM
    umm hobbies..

    i like to draw, iv been doing it since i was about 3, i cant say that i have got much better since i started but atleast now iv mastered the stick man. stick animals are abit more complicated.

    on the weekends i like to drive down to the flyover near my house and count the cars driving clockwise around the m25 according to colour. next time you buy a car i would suggest white, its the most popular colour of car and should be easy to sell or part exchange.

    i also like dogs but that's not a hobby.. i dont think dogs is a hobby.. is it ?

    chilledpill1/27/2013 10:33:55 PM
    haha I like to draw too. I think mine has improved since being 3 years old though, it's at least a 10 yr old level in my opinion.

    Oh really, i'm not a big fan of white cars, that's interesting that they're popular... thanks for the tip though :P

    Liking dogs certainly can be a hobby, you can do all sorts with dogs. Some people collect dogs.

    airkyd1/28/2013 8:37:35 AM
    that's awesome!! seeing as your a much better drawer maybe your could draw something for me ..... ill colour it in?

    Important question; IF i took you out on a date and we need ended up in Mcdonalds, what would you do ?

    What is your name by the way ?

    chilledpill1/28/2013 11:38:08 AM
    Well if I am 100% honest the only thing I trust to order from McDonalds is a bottle of water, so I'd sit there and watch you eat while I timidly sat there drinking my H2o. I know it sounds lame but I like to stick to my guns.

    I'm Katie, and you are?

    airkyd1/28/2013 1:39:35 PM
    its not lame. it demonstrates strong will, a higher state of morals and its incredibly polite in the way you would sit there drinking your McDonald water. i take it you dont eat fast food?

    I'm doug

    btw have you done online dating before? im not really to sure how it work or the correct etiquette.

    chilledpill1/28/2013 1:59:15 PM
    Thanks, I don;t tend to eat fast food unless i'm paralytically drunk.

    Hi Doug...

    Just act yourself, no good pretending to be someone you're not! I've only been on here a few days so am still working it out myself.

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    Default Re: Nearly there i think, closing the deal


    Quote Originally Posted by airky View Post
    its not lame. it demonstrates strong will, a higher state of morals and its incredibly polite....
    VERY VERY Beta, that was a golden opportunity to tease or try and push or pull. Instead you accommodated her which won't build attraction and it makes you look a bit weak.

    even something stupid would be a little better here i.e. "well it's lucky you don't eat fast food or I'd constantly be after your McNuggets ; )"

    See how its more playful?

    She is responding but you are building comfort with Fluff talk rather than attraction with flirting. Comfort without attraction = friendzone.

    As for a number, I would suggest you up the flirting before n-closing. You have her attention but there's not really a great deal of attraction yet.

    give it a few messages of solid flirting - with less fluff talk and you'll get that number.

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