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    Default Help required for an aspiring personal trainers

    G'day gentlemen,

    My first time creating a thread however I'm well aware of the collective abilities in helping an Australian brother out.

    So anyways, there is this chick I have on FB who I know through my younger brother. Very pretty and an amazingly fit body. Being scoping her for the past few weeks and anyways finally opened a conversation with her online and then got her number. Were texting last night and then SHE continued it this morning. So today I tried to put the moves on the organise a date. I'll just relay the important ones from today and hopefully you can critiques and offer advice for moving forward.

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    Now that the rain has cleared, you doing anything exciting today? Please don't say work, that'll just depress me

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    Yeppp. Haha, hit the nail on the head, working. What about you?

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    Sad face. I was meant to see my tattooist but she had to cancel, hence I'm really sad.

    HER
    Ohh that sucks. What were you getting done?

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    Work on my right arm. Want to cheer me up?

    HER
    Oh cool. Lol how exactly am I meant to do that?

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    After you finish work, we'll get our seaweed on and get sushi for dinner.

    HER
    Haha what, so unexpected! I thought you have a girlfriend?

    ME
    You don't like being spontaneous? Nope, who said I did? Wait, you don't have a girlfriend do you?

    HER
    I do, only sometimes though. No one said you did, I just thought you did. Yeahhh, I'm into girls, unlucky. Hah no I don't.

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    Would've thought a Personal Trainer would always be up for new things.

    HER
    Well technically I'm not a PT yet so I still have some time up my sleeve. annddd besides, tonight is body attack night, which I NEED to do so I look somewhat like a PT.

    So I kind of accepted that as a bit of a blow off or whatever so I thought I'd try play cool and seem like it didn't really bother.

    ME
    Okay, not going to try and convince you.

    Haven't gotten a reply yet and it's been roughly 2 hours. Kind of recognise that my last message probably wasn't the best. Was hoping that someone could offer a way for me to keep the embers burning and try organise something at another time, maybe this weekend.

    This would sort of be my first success if it works out, and she's smoking hot too. I'd be forever thankful for any assistance. Cheers fellas.

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    Default Re: Help required for an aspiring personal trainers

    I think her last text was a shit test and you failed. You should have plowed through her resistance and just set a time. That' what I would have done anyways.

    From this point lay off for today and try again tomorrow.
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    Default Re: Help required for an aspiring personal trainers

    That makes a lot of sense to me now. Could you recommend maybe some pointers for what I could start up with tomorrow? Maybe something like "So now that you've had you're work out, do you still think it would have trumped dinner with me?"

    Thanks for your advice already - sort of gave me an epiphany moment.

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    your* ..... of course I'll be sure not to include stupid typos in my messages.

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    Just go straight for the date with your message.

    "Now that you've got your workout out of the way, your schedule is all clear to grab some sushi with me. Pick you up at 6:03?"
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Help required for an aspiring personal trainers

    So I'm planning on messaging this girl today, even though I didn't get any response overnight. Am I best to start a conversation first and build a little comfort and attraction?

    Something like:
    "Hey PT2B, hope you had an amazing workout last night. It'd want to have been amazing to have passed up a sushi dinner for haha :P"

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    Default Re: Help required for an aspiring personal trainers

    Yea, that's fine.

    I'd make it cocky-funny by throwing in "a sushi dinner WITH me" or something like that. Otherwise it's good.
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    So before I got your reply, I sent:

    Hey PT2B! How'd that workout treat you last night? Better than sushi? So guess what..!!

    I got a response back immediately and she digged the nickname; said her workout was hard but ignored the 'better than sushi?' part. She seemed intrigued by my 'guess what' part - I just said how hot it was. We've just been sending messages back and forward about nothing really.

    The last thing she wrote was "haha, happy days for me" (in response to something I'd said before), I now want to throw in something cocky-funny like "that's what all the girls say when they're speaking to me..". Is this a good move to make to try and then spring out the date-request you gave me yesterday?

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    I mean, it depends on how cocky-funny you've been with the rest of the conversation. If you've been really cocky-funny the whole time, eventually you're going to want to lighten up. You're call, you know the girl and situation better than we do. But good luck and if you need more help don't be afraid to ask!
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    Default Re: Help required for an aspiring personal trainers

    Yeah, haven't been overly cocky-funny at all. I just messaged her back with "Haha, I'm glad I have that affect on you". No response yet. Leaving for the gym soon I might throw her something like "look I've got to go, but seeing as how you got your workout last night sorted, I'll take you out for that sushi dinner tonight. All sweet to pick you up at 7:23??"

    Thanks for all your help man, I feel like if I can just get one under the belt, I'll be able to ride on without any training wheels for future ones.


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