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    Default What should I respond to this?

    Long story short, I met an HB10, went in direct, got her #. She was into me, said she thought i looked cute, but I messed up somewhere with the texts. I tried to get her out quickly once, and her excuse was she works full time, tho we exchanged fb. Here's an excerpt from our last exchange. (Note there was a 'conversation' before this which dwindled out)

    Me: what kind of trouble were you up to today?
    Her: Riding
    (she rides horses)
    Me: Dirty or clean?
    Her: Clean
    Me: thank god, wouldnt want you getting dirty without me
    Me: a tongue? sorry i dont do tongues until you buy me a few drinks first
    Her: bahah
    Me: youre fun, we need to hang out asap. When are you free?
    (shot in the dark really, i was initially going to say:" ok well I am completely over stimulated by your well thought out one word reponses that it has completely drained me. I must go lay down, nite nite.")
    Her: Uhmmm not sure going to mexico

    Since she didnt respond for a while to the last one, i deleted her number. Now that she has, I was thinking of if/what to respond.. Maybe something funny and playful along the lines of, "sweet you can keep my gift under $250", or something more serious, I know at some point i really have to draw the line and go 50:50, so i was thinking about "damn looks like im talking to all the wrong people lately." Either way, wanted to hear what you guys have to say.


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    Default Hold it steady Tiger

    By the sounds of it, things are about ready for you to move on. Coming out like that all of a sudden did probably freak her out a bit. Other than that though, you carried on the conversation just right.

    However, if you did want to, you could always try playful response. A last resort neg would also be extremely effective. Another idea would be to just simply state that you thought she was interesting, but you would rather be friends. A woman is always prepared to give the "Let's be friends" speech, but she is never ready to receive the speech from anybody. Doing this captures her attention and challenges her for not responding to you. After that, make her regret not hanging out with you in the first place.

    I once was in the same situation with this one lady. She had been ignoring me for the whole week, but I made public every awesome thing I did on Facebook that week. It caught her attention, and she apologized for ignoring me. If I had not rushed back into it, I could have gotten her easily. However, that was at a time when I still did not understand the rules of the game. I do know now, and I certainly know I will be using it when the situation arises again.
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    Default Re: What should I respond to this?

    I guess you didn't catch what I caught. What I saw was someone who was overbearing in texts. Every....single....t ext..... from her was one worded. EVERY SINGLE ONE. That's lack of investment. She wasn't into the conversation and then you went for the invite. Bad move.

    I don't know if you've been on the other side of the fence, but I have. This is what it sounds like to me when someone is saying clever things to me and I'm just not invested in the convo...

    Her: blah blahblah blah troublemaker. Lol

    Me: Lol

    Her: Blah blah blah blahblahblahblah blah blah crazy day.

    Me: Lol yea.

    Her: Blah blah blah blahblah blah blah blahblah we should hang out.

    Me: Yea.....sure....

    It's not WHAT you say, it's HOW you say it. The most clever lines will NOT get you anywhere. If you don't believe me then watch The Pickup Artist starring Robert Downey Jr. The movie is unrealistic, but the lines are the most clever I've heard. But they mean nothing because he still looks needy.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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