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    Default How often to message the girl on fb

    We have been talking for awhile she usually messages me first but she hasent in a few days even though were both online. Is it a good idea to message her? and how often is too often to talk on fb?

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    Default Re: How often to message the girl on fb

    If she is always the one who initiates it then she may be checking your interest in her and seeing if you will then initiate the conversation. If you dont get a reply then she may be a flop but you can try to freeze her out. The downside is that she already hasnt messages you so a Freeze Out could be a shot in the dark. The key is send her one message to spark her interest but then do not justify her with another. You will come across alpha in this way and avoid appearing needy. That is a mistake AFCs will make ever so often is message a girl and get ignored so message her the next day then again and again. Before you know it he has a message thread 20 or more messages deep to this girl. She will never respond. I have personally made this mistake and I am considered a natural by most standards. There are a some things I still need to learn such as social media stuff which is how I made said mistakes. But once I figured out what was going on I was able to fix myself.

    I guess a short answer to your question is 1 is plenty 2 is too many.

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    Default Re: How often to message the girl on fb

    Another question to ask yourself is what is your goal with this girl? If it's ultimately to meet with her then your conversations need to be geared towards numbers closing and take it to a phone game.

    The last thing you want to do is be trapped in fb conversations and playing grab ass trying to build rapport and end up being her fb texting buddy.

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    Default Re: How often to message the girl on fb

    Try move it from FB messaging to texting or IM. The Mindset of a message is like a letter and people generally write in that way. If you are messaging when online like chatting thats all well and good but only when they are online. Need to get it being towards always being part of each others lives or bodies - two minds and bodies connecting, not two facebook profiles connecting.

    You should be writing about subjects that lead to meeting up on a date/fun time and even physically. 'Man this new place we went to last week has these awesome banana margharitas!!'. Before you know it she will be like 'take me!!'. 'Aww you're feeling tired and down today, here's a kiss from me'. Make it exciting and going somewhere or they will fade away.

    As for how often, it depends completely on the girl. Calibrate to her. If a girl IM me constantly I usually do the same. ACDC. Its all voltage and current.


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