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    Fight4Love is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    did just what you said right now. Will report back!

    Thanks everyone again and especially I.M.Mortal.

    Quote Originally Posted by I.M.Mortal View Post
    Since she has been responding, you are going to have to assume she is telling the truth.

    So reschedule. Ideally you want her to set alternative dates (a true test to see if she really is interested in you.)

    Also, what I normally do is I safeguard myself from flaking by demonstrating higher value of my time. I want to give the notion that I am busy and I am fitting her into my schedule.

    HER: "I can't my mom's in town this weekend."
    YOU: "I would say bring her along but I can't handle two psychics. Mom's are master psychics. So we are going to have to reschedule."

    Tell her two days that you are busy.

    "I am busy X day and X day." (I got a friend's party or w/e)

    DO NOT follow up with "How about X day?" or "When is a good time for you?" Alot of guys make this mistake. Keep your frame. Do not come off like you are working around her schedule.

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    Fight4Love is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Ok, so she said "We'll play it by ear then"

    Should I stop texting her till next week?

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Yea, just restart the key lock sequence next week. That's the beauty of it. You can do it anytime. BUT don't do it too far in advance to your designated date. It's advised to hit her up on the same day or a day in advance.

    Although "We'll play it by ear" isn't the response you hoped for, even if you suggested dates, it's no guarantee she will commit. But you did set yourself up as someone who is not needy and demonstrated higher value on your time, which is good.

    Now to get your mind off her, find another girl to keep you occupied. In truth, texting should be fun. Have fun with it and don't expect responses. The moment you text to get responses, you are parking your mind frame in the wrong alley. So just have fun with it.

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    Fight4Love is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Thanks again! I.M.Moral, you're the reason people sign up to seek help in this forum.

    I'll update this.

    p.s. I do have another girl on my text rotation =D


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