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    Default I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Hi guys,

    Many thanks to everyone here for great advices and strategies. Here is my situation, I met this girl through a friend last Friday, had a good convo for about 20 minutes and she suggested to have sangria sometime since we talked about it. I found out we also live really close to each other like a few blocks away and she's an internal auditor (key connection for my first text). So I got her number off fb on Monday through messaging and my text game started yesterday Tuesday as follow:

    Me (Tue-10:30am): Good morning XXX! This is YYY. I just saw something that reminded me of you.

    Her (11:35am): Hey how r u? Haha what did you see?

    Me (12:06pm): My favorite email: a 21 questions set from an internal auditor...Except it was different today.

    Her (1:41pm): Ouch! 21?!

    Me (4:46pm): It was meant for my director actually. You wouldn't believe what happened right before I left for school! (cliffhanger here)

    Her (Today - 8:53am): Wait did you quit your job?

    Me (9:12:am) : No Dork Butt! Unless you want me to break my piggy bank to buy XXX Wangria (her last name is Wang) some Sangria (reason for Sangria here is because she suggested us going when we first met)

    Her (9:18am): Lol Sangria won't cost you all that much! I still don't get it tho. So you're going to classes while working then?

    Me (9:31am): Wow you would like be the best psychic reader! (And a pretty one too)

    Her (right after): Haha thx.

    Ok, so I haven't texted her after her last text. My question is

    Should I text her randomly later a joke and then tonight ask her out or just ask her out tonight something like this:

    "Hey pretty psychic reader, roll with me to a psychic reader even at (x - i have mentioned this place to her before) at 7:13pm on Friday for some Sangria. I heard you can increase your psychic ability ten folds after the session .

    I appreciate all comments and advices!
    -Rich

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Actually, one of the better texts I seen. Looks good, Rich. Her two emotional checkpoints look about right.

    Looks like you got the idea of the key-lock sequence down.
    - You sparked an emotional response, got her to stop what she was doing and invested in your text.
    - You built a connection using an inside joke in reference to something that happened on your first meet.

    Keep it moving forward. I'd start shooting for the last part, close and handle logistics of the meet up. So your last psychic close looks good. Go for it.

    Just don't spend the next 50 texts playing "grab ass" trying to build rapport. Try to keep it under 10 texts.

    Worst thing that can happen is she says she can't make it. But don't worry, if she can't hang out with you on this go due to prior commitment, you have to assume she is telling the truth. If she isn't interested in you, then normally she wouldn't have respond (and if she did, its one word texts).

    Let us know how it goes.

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Thanks for the reply I.M.Mortal!

    I think I got myself into trouble. I sent her another text and got this response.

    Me: Hey full moon lover, it's lunch time. FOOD CHECK! Send me a pic of what you're eating.

    Her: Dude you're such a stalker...and i just ate no more food left.

    Me: I thought stalking was like calling you 50 times a day. I was simply trying to see if we like the same kind of food...

    I think the reason she called me stalker because I saw on her update regarding full mooon on my FB feeds so I thought I was making a connection with the name calling ala "full moon lover"

    At this point, what the hell is going on? Please help!

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Great start. Seems like she is interested. I would give it a day or two and then text her asking her out. Giving her a day makes her think "Does this guy really like me" then just simply say something like. Feeling fruity, how bout some Sangria.

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Many thanks to everyone here for great advices and strategies. Here is my situation, I met this girl through a friend last Friday, had a good convo for about 20 minutes and she suggested to have sangria sometime since we talked about it. I found out we also live really close to each other like a few blocks away and she's an internal auditor (key connection for my first text). So I got her number off fb on Monday through messaging
    so what are you waiting for? ask her out. use this:http://www.puaforums.com/how-ask-gir...ner-close.html

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Gah, rich you had it. The whole idea of closing was continuing off from where you had it.

    Her: Dude you're such a stalker...and i just ate no more food left.
    Me: I thought stalking was like calling you 50 times a day. I was simply trying to see if we like the same kind of food...

    Here you broke out of your frame. lost that alpha and flipped your cards. If that was a Sh1t Test, then you failed. You got defensive and when guys get defensive, it demonstrates you got something to hide. You completely came out of the playfulness. This definitely wasn't attractive.

    I wouldn't have let the stalking thing affected me one bit. Just roll with the punches. Proper response should've been something along of the lines of.

    1. "Touche, miss sassypants!"
    2. "Hey now, you're not the only psychic around."
    3. "Stalking? Goddamn it. I need to get a new teacher other than my cat. *Fires Cat's Name*"

    OR better yet don't even bring up stalking as if you never heard it.

    "Food all gone? Damn, well now I have to be the psychic and guess."
    OR
    "Food all gone? I bet I can make that food reappear. You want to know how?" (Cliffhanger)
    She asks "how?"
    Then you can transition into the date. "Italian magic. [X restaraunt] @7:13 pm."

    Lesson: The longer you play textual grabass the more you risk, saying the wrong thing. So go for the close fast.

    At this point you can try to recover with:
    "But now, I have to be the psychic and guess!"
    roll with me to a psychic reader even at (x - i have mentioned this place to her before) at 7:13pm on Friday for some Sangria. I heard you can increase your psychic ability ten folds after the session

    If you lose this time, then live and learn. You had the fun, playfulness down, but you need the solid alpha foundation to keep it together.

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    I.M.Mortal , you are the master I am the apprentice.. at best.

    I'm not sure if I'm lucky or not but she replied with this.

    Her: Haha..well what did you have?

    Any idea for to response and close? Thanks guys!


    Ok how about this?

    Me: Did your psychic ability fail you again? Come to X restaurant at 7:13pm for Sangria will increase your ability.

    Quote Originally Posted by I.M.Mortal View Post
    Gah, rich you had it. The whole idea of closing was continuing off from where you had it.

    Her: Dude you're such a stalker...and i just ate no more food left.
    Me: I thought stalking was like calling you 50 times a day. I was simply trying to see if we like the same kind of food...

    Here you broke out of your frame. lost that alpha and flipped your cards. If that was a Sh1t Test, then you failed. You completely came out of the playfulness.

    I wouldn't have let the stalking thing affected me one bit. Just roll with the punches. Proper response should've been something along of the lines of.

    1. "Touche, miss sassypants!"
    2. "Hey now, you're not the only psychic around."
    3. "Stalking? Goddamn it. I need to get a new teacher other than my cat."

    OR better yet don't even bring up stalking as if you never heard it.

    "Food all gone? Damn, well now I have to be the psychic and guess."
    OR
    "Food all gone? I bet I can make that food reappear. You want to know how?" (Cliffhanger)
    She asks "how?"
    Then you can transition into the date.

    Lesson: The longer you play textual grabass the more you risk, saying the wrong thing. So go for the close fast.

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Whew, you lucky. Because I know girls who won't respond to that. But the good news is she is interested in you enough to respond. So there is life in this. I see light at the end of the tunnel.

    That line you got is good. Use it. And close.

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Yeah man you are right I'm a lucky s.o.b.

    She said her mom is in town this weekend and she said "not this weekend." What do I do?



    Quote Originally Posted by I.M.Mortal View Post
    Whew, you lucky. Because I know girls who won't respond to that. But the good news is she is interested in you enough to respond. So there is life in this. I see light at the end of the tunnel.

    That line you got is good. Use it. And close.

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    Default Re: I need help asking this new girl out through texting

    Since she has been responding, you are going to have to assume she is telling the truth.

    So reschedule. Ideally you want her to set alternative dates (a true test to see if she really is interested in you.)

    Also, what I normally do is I safeguard myself from flaking by demonstrating higher value of my time. I want to give the notion that I am busy and I am fitting her into my schedule.

    HER: "I can't my mom's in town this weekend."
    YOU: "I would say bring her along but I can't handle two psychics. Mom's are master psychics. So we are going to have to reschedule."

    Tell her two days that you are busy.

    "I am busy X day and X day." (I got a friend's party or w/e)

    DO NOT follow up with "How about X day?" or "When is a good time for you?" Alot of guys make this mistake. Keep your frame. Do not come off like you are working around her schedule.


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