Looking at this, what I think happened is that you did not "know where you were in the game".
That is, you already had attraction and she was asking you out. Instead of simply saying "yeh ok do you like subway & coffee?" etc and taking the lead and making a date you stepped backwards to frame her as the chaser (which is fine but you went in a bit hard in my opinion). She then took offence a bit (this was not a shit test).
What you need to do now is repair it and say "it would be great to meet up with you - is tonight ok? etc" and go from there. This is the way i read it.