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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    Looking at this, what I think happened is that you did not "know where you were in the game".
    That is, you already had attraction and she was asking you out. Instead of simply saying "yeh ok do you like subway & coffee?" etc and taking the lead and making a date you stepped backwards to frame her as the chaser (which is fine but you went in a bit hard in my opinion). She then took offence a bit (this was not a shit test).
    What you need to do now is repair it and say "it would be great to meet up with you - is tonight ok? etc" and go from there. This is the way i read it.

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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    Oh no, she's totally trying to play me. She keeps trying to get dinner out of me. Like fuck.
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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    Quote Originally Posted by hook_100 View Post
    Looking at this, what I think happened is that you did not "know where you were in the game".
    That is, you already had attraction and she was asking you out. Instead of simply saying "yeh ok do you like subway & coffee?" etc and taking the lead and making a date you stepped backwards to frame her as the chaser (which is fine but you went in a bit hard in my opinion). She then took offence a bit (this was not a Sh1t Test).
    What you need to do now is repair it and say "it would be great to meet up with you - is tonight ok? etc" and go from there. This is the way i read it.
    I'm sorry. I completely disagree. Especially after she's tried to play me.

    Getting a phone number is ok, but creating a chase frame is the best way to build attraction before you meet up. Just like a time bridge is better than a number on its own.
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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    You may be right because you're the one talking to her.
    All I know is that I've missed out on a lot of chicks because I didn't come to the point and actually ask her - i was too busy with indirect/negging/framing game, when she already had the doggy-bowl 'f%^k me' eyes going on.
    maybe not in this case for you - i don't know much about chat room game.

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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    hook, you definitely have a point. You can often game yourself right out of the game. And after reflecting on this I think that the answer was somewhere in between. I'm happy I set up the chase frame because it will definitely help in the future and hopefully build stronger attraction when I'm not interacting with her.

    But I definitely came close to losing the set (I use that term loosely for online game) a couple times. So wise words.

    And as an update I got the number and a date tenatively scheduled.
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