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    Default Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    I'm trying to get this girl to give me her number on OkC and instead of going for the number I used a chase frame (I think this is helpful if I don't fuck it up afterward). Now she's called me out and I don't want to supplicate. Here's the convo:

    Her: Also if i keep answering all your questions now, what are we ever going to talk about over a drink or dinner?



    Me: Whoah there Speedy Gonzalez, let's not get ahead of ourselves! I learned your name less than 20 hours ago and you're already trying to steal me away for a drink or dinner? Girls these days...

    Her: lol now ur making me feel like a perv. fine ill be patient. and there Her: lol now ur making me feel like a perv. fine ill be patient. and there would be no stealing involved!! sheesh!

    Me: Haha. Ok [her name], since I'm fairly certain that you're neither a dude nor the 8' clown that's been terrorizing my dreams, I'd be willing to give you a text or a call to arrange a meetup. Her: willing?! still sounds like im making you. i need some enthusiasm!!!

    Me: Hey, that was a huge step for me. You have no idea how friggin scary that clown is!

    So I didn't want to beg or supplicate in the last message. What would have you guys done and where should I take it from here?
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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    Help a man out guys. I need some outside eyes on this one!
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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    That was pretty good Duke. It was all you.

    She called you out and she is almost sH1t testing you, see if you give in.

    I think she wants to play around some more.

    What Derek Cajun does is he eventually closes by saying:

    "This conversation is getting pretty R rated for OKC. Let's continue on the phone. What's your number?"
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    "...Give me your number and I'll call and tell you. This message tag on a dating site is making me feel creepy."

    So he uses the circumstance (chats not good enough) and implying that if she stays on chat, she is not good enough. A slight neg.

    Based on that example, in your case, you can take control of that conversation and say ultimately:

    Give it couple more lines and close with.

    "Anyways, I'm calling you right now. Chat is no fun unless you can hear how awesome I am sounding enthusiastic."

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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    You could have played a second request without supplicating. For those who are unaware to supplicate is to beg in an humble manner.

    Duke you could have thrown another request in there, perhaps you could have said something along the lines of

    ... You have no idea how friggen scary that clown is, in fact if I had your number on speed dial perhaps our first meet and greet could be you comforting me showing your enthusiasm to be in my presence.

    The above is definitely a work in progress but i think seeing as you got a response with the message asking for her number she clearly read it and chose to ignore the request and throw what I perceive a sh!t test. The way I have handled said things in the past is I would show a fake vulnerability that is obviously fake such as your scary clown. (If you have an 8' clown haunting your dreams you may need professional help) It is then throwing a bait for her to scoop up and latch on to and shows a slightly playful yet smart a$$ side to you as well as avoids her sh!t and throws some back at her in fact.

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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    So she responded with:

    "sounds kinky.


    i mean scary!

    so hows your night?"

    My response to this was:

    "Haha, you're totally picturing yourself with me in a clown suit! You're weird.

    My nights going pretty great, but want to know how you can make it infinitely better?"

    I'm going to use what you're saying in when she responds with the inevitable "how" reply.
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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    Quote Originally Posted by sinister View Post
    You could have played a second request without supplicating. For those who are unaware to supplicate is to beg in an humble manner.

    Duke you could have thrown another request in there, perhaps you could have said something along the lines of

    ... You have no idea how friggen scary that clown is, in fact if I had your number on speed dial perhaps our first meet and greet could be you comforting me showing your enthusiasm to be in my presence.

    The above is definitely a work in progress but i think seeing as you got a response with the message asking for her number she clearly read it and chose to ignore the request and throw what I perceive a sh!t test. The way I have handled said things in the past is I would show a fake vulnerability that is obviously fake such as your scary clown. (If you have an 8' clown haunting your dreams you may need professional help) It is then throwing a bait for her to scoop up and latch on to and shows a slightly playful yet smart a$$ side to you as well as avoids her sh!t and throws some back at her in fact.
    Do you actually think I supplicated in the second response? I mean, I didn't give her any ground and I didn't resort to begging.

    And as an update, the inevitable "how" reply came, but she's really slow responding so I'm going to take my time.
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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    NO! I dont think you supplicated at all. I am saying a second request for her number could have been possible if done properly. You definitely are on to something with this one. What exactly is your response to the "How?" going to be??

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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    I dont sense any form of showing neediness in any of your responses though. It all is working pretty well

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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    Haha, OkC stopped working on me then I had to go out. When I got back she started chatting with me.
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    Default Re: Quick opinion on whether this is supplicating

    gotta get that number bro! You dont want to be social media F-Zoned. Thats so hard to come out of haha.


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