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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Honestly, if you want to attract a woman don't give her decisions to make, make them yourself. I was in a very long LTR and my gf would not make a decision to save her life and it frustrated the sh1t out of me. For the longest time I thought she just didn't want to tell me what she wanted, but the moment of clarification came when I realized what she actually wanted was for me to tell her what we were doing. She literally wanted me to make the decision--that's what she wanted. I firmly believe most women are like this.

    So what do I think about laying the plan out? I wouldn't. If she asks tell her, but otherwise you're the leader and she's following you. Don't give her options unless you need to.
    Aha, OK, I see what you mean and I think there was a misunderstanding. What I mean when I said "plan", was basically the same as decision.

    "So this is the plan" or, less strong "so these are the two plans-options", was like like saying.. "so this is the decision".

    But yeah, indeed one thing is giving one option, one thing is giving two. The latter is not as strong..

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    This is all that I hear when I read the text about all the plans.

    Please come out with me and please have fun, this is what we will do and it will be fun, please! If that's not fun enough then please come with me and do this, is this fun enough to spend time with me doing!?!?

    No disrespect but it sounds super beta. Think of the most badass guy you know, you probably love to hang out with him nomatternwhat what. It doesn't matter what he's doing cause he's a good time. He also probably never tries to convince you to hang out cause he knows you have fun hangin out, all he has to say is hey man let's go.

    Same situation but with a girl, but you are the badass. You make the plans, you make the decisions and you don't apologize for it. Take batman and the dukes advice. keeping it a mystery is great for a girl. One they can't compare with other possible plans as it was mentiond above. Two they think...hmmm I wonder what the heck we are going to do.

    Girls do like to plan sometimes...they can do that on their own time, that's boring...when girls are with an alpha they will have fun nomatter what.

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Don't talk about plans at all after you give the initial meeting. Girls like the mystery.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Thanks guys.

    Last one for this round.

    What do you think about going cocky-funny now?

    Something like "let's meet at 10 at xxx, we (or you?) can meet Cristina later at the club, I already have too many girls chasing me, no need to bring more "


    I'm a little worried this girl might lack some sense of humor, but that shouldn't allow me to stop being myself and making jokes...

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    I like where your head is at on this but I think it needs a bit of tweaking. Maybe something more like.

    Meet me at x at x. Trying to bring in another girl already? How forward of you.

    No "haha" or jk or Lol's or smileys.

    I'm not saying use that exactly but something like that. Direct, funny, teasing her, and confident. She should understand that it's flirty and teasing. What do you other guys think

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Quote Originally Posted by Flyboy86 View Post
    No "haha" or jk or Lol's or smileys.
    Don't agree at all. Don't use "jk." The reason we don't use "jk" is because it's like saying that you're not man enough to say what you said without qualifying it.

    However, what about "haha," "lol," and emoticons? You should use them. The essence of cocky-funny is sarcasm. The problem is that sarcasm requires a lot of body language to be conveyed properly. Since you can't use body language in texts, you need to do something. This is where the hahas, lols, and emoticons come into play. If you're cocky-funny and you never use these things you'll come across as an asshole.
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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Valid point the duke, I'm very sarcastic in person so when I text people they typically understand that I'm teasing so I rarely put any of that stuff in. I do feel like haha and Lol's do the same thing as jk. But that's my opinion. Smileys...if you must use them...never use them more than the girl...or better yet call the girl that way you don't have to worry about how she is going to interpret the text.

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Here I am again guys.

    ME
    Meet me at 10 in front of New Yorker, we can meet Cristina later at the club, I already have too many girls chasing me, no need to bring more

    HER
    I have a photo shoot that day ... so .. then I will go to Sky in Republic Square




    What would you do at this point?
    I was thinking this: not replying and then come back in a 2-3 weeks saying something like "you missed the chance last time, but seems like you're a lucky girl and you will have another chance . I'm going here and there, join me".
    Another option could be to reply with something like "damn, such a bad luck for you ", but I'd rather go with the first one.

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    After a day of no reply she sweetens the pill:

    SHE
    so if you want ... I'll be there


    How would you reply from here?

    I was thinking I could keep it dry/normal and say:
    ME
    "let's try for next week".

    Or I could use it as an excuse to spice things up from now with something like:
    ME
    "only if you send me the sexiest pics of that photo shoot" :POK, after a day of no reply she says:

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    Default Re: Is this message a strong one? Give me some feedbacks

    Quote Originally Posted by lucifer7 View Post
    After a day of no reply she sweetens the pill:

    SHE
    so if you want ... I'll be there


    How would you reply from here?

    I was thinking I could keep it dry/normal and say:
    ME
    "let's try for next week".

    Or I could use it as an excuse to spice things up from now with something like:
    ME
    "only if you send me the sexiest pics of that photo shoot" :POK, after a day of no reply she says:
    When are you supposed to go out? This makes a big difference since you don't want her determining your schedule.

    Anyways, she's given you the power now and that's the behavior you wanted so you need to reward her somehow. There are several ways you can approach this.

    (1) Just agree to go out with her, but make it EXPLICIT that she is inconveniencing you;
    (2) Agree to go out with her, but change the plans a bit, like the time you were going to meet. Say something like you're busy then so you need to meet at X time instead of when you originally planned;
    (3) Tell her that you can't meet that night, but you can hang out the next day (or sometime VERY soon); or
    (4) I like your "Sure, we can go out then, but bring your modelling photos so I can decide which ones the sexiest :P"

    Nicely done btw, you've won so far!
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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